What to do if my Ex cheated?

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I had suspicion that my ex was cheating on me, when I confronted him during the relationship he denied it and blamed it on work and that was his reason for being busy but I never believed it. This was 10 months ago. Two days ago it was confirmed that he did cheat and I was right it was with someone at his work. I'm wondering now because it triggered pain, what do I do to forget it?  



Also, would you confront him now about it? I'm over him and feel disgusted by it because of who it was with. I found out about the girl and how she is and if karma really is true than I'm not worried at all. She also said some things about him which I guess he deserves because I never talked about him like that. 


Any advice would be great. I also have been working out, I'm in school bought a car worked during the summer and starting a new job soon. He was my first adult relationship.. so when the advice is simply " let it go" I already know I have to.

It&#39;s Bree · Accepted Answer

if you are over him and not together anymore, no longer have feelings, i dont see what a confrontation would accmplish. like you said, let it go

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I understand how this could be hard to deal with EVEN if you have gotten over him. I would say to ask to meet somewhere to talk about something then CALMY let him know that you know the truth, he`s gross, and tell him to have a nice life. You need the closer or this will probably haunt you. It would drive me crazy. Letting him know, showing him ydgaf and being so calm about it will eat him up inside.

Make sure he knows this is simply just to get this off your chest, and make sure not to argue or get angry. Just act like he was nothing, and don`t spend too much time with him or you may get emotional.

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What to do if my Ex cheated?

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