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Please help me, I had a huge argument with my best friend?
I have had a massive argument with my best friend. It basically went like this:
Me: I feel like you are ignoring me, and leaving me out because of your boyfriend.
Her: Ok, but I'm not.
*We talked about it calmly*
Me: But you've changed, a LOAD, like you're becoming like me.
Her: Well jeez, why the **** can't you leave me alone?! If it makes you happy I'll talk to you more.
And we talked more that day, she spoke to me, but that night, we basically had that conversation again, but a load more harsh.
It came to me telling her this:
I can understand you're going out with..., but I don't understand why you've told him about our argument, and told him everything.
Her: Well, he's my boyfriend, and he was the subject of the argument!!
Me: But he wasn't! I told you I though you were ignoring me!
Her: Well, I don't care.
Me: You don't care?! he's called me a *****, teased me about my weight, chased me calling me a walrus, and is just generally horrible to me.
Her: Well, whatever. I still want to be friends.
Me: But will we be friends? Or will I have to compete for your attention again, have you ignore me, and only me?! Will you be friend? I got you and... together, with out me, you'd still be there with him on your mind!
She then logged off, is ignoring me, and spreading rumors about me.
What would you do? Should I try to make it up with her, ignore her, or wait for her to break up with her boyfriend and come crying to me?
6 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
shes not a true friend but m opion is give her time and just still be there for as a good friend but if that's what she really said I would give up
- DeeLv 78 years ago
Oh, she's taking sides. Her boyfriend who you got her together with, insults you, she ignores you and now she's having a "please understand me self pity party". Well, truth is, people in general ALWAYS seem to ditch their said be best friends when the guy/girl of their most recent dreams comes along. It's sad, but there is never any room left for the bestie when our friends want to spend all their free time with fantasy guy/girl. I think she owes you an apology! Her boyfriend hurt your feelings, she's not defending you but complaining about you to mutual friends or peers. I suggest you say nothing, go about your life and let her make it up to you. You mean well, their relationship is temporary AND she will come back and deny anything like this ever happened. Feel better, good luck and watch it happen.
- 8 years ago
Firstly, love the username. Secondly, take some time off from each other, give her some time without you and I'm pretty sure she will miss you and remind herself how much of a great friend you are. Her boyfriend sounds like a douchebag but it shouldn't be your job to tell her, give her some time and I'm sure she will find it out herself. I know you had an argument with your best friend and you both may have said some bad things to each other but forgive and forget! You are still best friends and don't ever forget it.
- Anonymous8 years ago
Friends can help each other. A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself - and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he really is.
Morrison, Jim
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- 8 years ago
Time for you to cut your losses AND move On. Seems like they never was your friend to let these things happen to you. Sometimes you Can be someones friend but they not be yours.
