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Teen girls: Please help me, I had a huge argument with my best friend?
I have had a massive argument with my best friend. It basically went like this:
Me: I feel like you are ignoring me, and leaving me out because of your boyfriend.
Her: Ok, but I'm not.
*We talked about it calmly*
Me: But you've changed, a LOAD, like you're becoming like me.
Her: Well jeez, but the **** can't you leave me alone?! If it makes you happy I'll talk to you more.
And we talked more that day, she spoke to me, but that night, we basically had that conversation again, but a load more harsh.
It came to me telling her this:
I can understand you're going out with..., but I don't understand why you've told him about our argument, and told him everything.
Her: Well, he's my boyfriend, and he was the subject of the argument!!
Me: But he wasn't! I told you I though you were ignoring me!
Her: Well, I don't care.
Me: You don't care?! he's called me a *****, teased me about my weight, chased me calling me a walrus, and is just generally horrible to me.
Her: Well, whatever. I still want to be friends.
Me: But will we be friends? Or will I have to compete for your attention again, have you ignore me, and only me?! Will you be friend? I got you and... together, with out me, you'd still be there with him on your mind!
She then logged off, is ignoring me, and spreading rumors about me.
What would you do? Should I try to make it up with her, ignore her, or wait for her to break up with her boyfriend and come crying to me?
We were amazing mates, like so close we were almost sisters We knew when each other had their periods, and we would bring each other chocolate, cards and little things to make each other feel better.
5 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
Wait. If she comes crying back to you I would make it up but mayb have her as your friend not best friend. If she seems really truly sorry then i would forgive her. I used to have a best friend who was rlly wierdly mean to me sometimes but i just lived with it.. Then I told her to not tell anyone about the guy I liked and she told everyone! So i ignored her for ages and we haven't spoken since. Was your friendship with her really good before? If it was then it might be worth fixing but if it was just average then i wouldn't...
- 8 years ago
If my boyfriend treated my best friend in that way I wouldn't want to be with him! Really, that's horrible... I'd maybe leave it a couple of days with your best friend, let things cool down. Then message her apologising and just say you miss having her in your life. Loads of people change though when they get into a relationship. My friends have neglected me loads when they've been in a relationship, it's just a common outcome i'm afraid
- 8 years ago
i have a better idea. grab something heavey and break her face. she is a cow she not worth. i would not be her friend at all, even i don't let my bf treat my friends like that. leave forget her, or make her miserable thats i would do. never choose a boy over a friend thats a huge rule to obey! dont talk talk to dont even look at her. get better friends ones thatknow what the word friend means
Source(s): but it be worth it smashing her face!! - 8 years ago
A really friend wouldn't do **** like that. Move on. Someone else is bound to be a better friend than her. She's not worth it. Sorry
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- Anonymous8 years ago
leeeeeeeeeeeeet 'errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr go man.
Focus on you!
