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my boyfriend doesnt like my best guy friend?

so my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 months today. weve been talked for months before that though. so i have this guy friend who i am so close too. were bestfriends & hes basically my brother honestly. were silly together and laugh like any friends would do. everything i do with him, i would do with a girl friend cause were just friends. only difference is hes a guy.

so my boyfriend doesnt like this friend since hes a guy, but weve never given him a reason to be concerned or anything at all. he tells me i flirt with him in front of him and i asked him to give me an example of when and he said i dont have too or i dont remember. so that doesnt tell me one thing! he tells me it makes him miserable when i hang out with my friend, but the only things my friend & i do is go to a coffee shop, go to walmart or stupid stuff. and my boyfriend will get mad that i do that. i even tell my boyfriend where im going and what were doing.

honestly i dont have to do any of that, i dont even need to ask permission but i do that stuff out of respect you know? so basically my boyfriend is telling me to stop hanging out with him. i told him i wouldnt because hes my friend and we know were doing nothing wrong at all. he wants to compromise by me hanging out with him less which i already did that but he said lesser. so basically once a month. i told him im not having a schedule on when i can see my friend. so he said that things will stay the same if i dont compromise. but i thought me telling him where and what were doing was enough.

someone help!! how can we compromise since im not willling to give up my friend?

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  • 8 years ago

    Your boyfriend is just jealous. You can hang out with your friend, just don't talk about it with your boyfriend. How would you feel if your boyfriend was besties with a girl as well? Or if he gushed about it with you? Just try and look at it from his perspective, and tell him you love HIM, and not your friend. It would also help if your friend had a girlfriend (or better yet, a boyfriend..)

  • 8 years ago

    As a guy with a bf that is a girl who (had) a boyfriend....eventually....it will lead to what your boyfriend is worried about...friends with benefits...

  • 8 years ago

    Try google

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