which of these cause stress and, how or why?

girlfriend issues:

holding hands or wanting to walk arm-in-arm

asking inane questions - possibly to make a point or to even just talk to spark something related

kissing in front of others - friends, public - not a full-on make out always, sometimes a respectable lip smack

being silly - this is in the eyes of the beholder, isn't it?

favors requested - as i do many when she requests them as well

perspective comments - trying to look at situations from all sides, not just hers

trying to be humorous or make smile - see being silly?

reminding of promises unfulfilled - well meant, but never coming to fruition

wanting to help or support - is this thought of as smothering or crowding?

you could really help with the right answers - and maybe save a beautiful thing