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I am stuck in the friend zone. Help?

Hi there. There's this girl that I like. We were texting the other night and spoke our minds. She said that she loves me as a friend and that I was her best-friend and that she wouldn't trade me for anyone else in the world. But here's the thing, I don't want to love her like that, I want to love her as if she was my girlfriend. So obviously, I am stuck in the friend zone. Now how do I get out? I care about her a lot and don't want anything to happen to her. She said that if we start dating and mess up, it'll ruin our friendship. I agree with that.

Thanks, Jordan

P.S. I already tried moving on, but when I do, it always comes back to her.

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  • 8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I'm not trying to be offensive but are you a guy or a girl?

  • 8 years ago

    If you're still in primary school or junior or middle high school, I would not worry too much about it. You are both still young and have a lot to focus on and still growing and learning about yourselves time. Stay friends with her and try by about year 9 to see how things go and if you're still friends in senior school or University/TAFE years, try again. If you've followed that and Jordan's idea and it hasn't worked yet, it just hasn't worked yet but you will move on eventually if it doesn't work. You will find someone else you like and you will be fine, even if it doesn't seem likely now.

    Source(s): Experience.
  • 4 years ago

    Yeah you opt for to initiate replacing your relationship which includes her quickly. every time she does something dorky or dumb bust her chops on it make interesting of her and produce it up better than once contained in the day not too a lot cuz then you receives stressful. also every time she inquires about something on your authentic searching your weekend, exes, associates, etc. be form of a smartass about answering her. Be extremely conceited yet not an finished prick or you'll lose your friendship which includes her. If she is a positive female be able to have a number of what you're doing dished lower back at you so be waiting and continuously on your ft haha she must be questioning "wow this guy who i presumed became so effective and innocuous is form of horny he's so positive and he's not bending over backwards for me in simple terms because i'm fantastically what the hell?!?! I even ought to get to the bottom of this" at this factor she must be showing you the classic indications of a weigh down: giggling at each thing you say punching you contained in the arm or slapping contained in the arm imparting you with the :O face talked about with the help of a grin everytime you dish her a robust comeback declaring "omg you're sooo humorous!!" or something alongside those strains searching down on the floor once you lock eyes taking area in which includes her hair plenty licking her lips then searching at your eyes then down at your lips (means she needs you to kiss her) good success bro!! Oh and btw if she starts telling you about men she likes over and once extra then you're form of doomed and also you're gonna opt for to artwork plenty tougher. also try now to not make your self so accessible.

  • Deb
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Honey, you will waste your life if you keep coming back to her. She doesn't want you. Do you think she's a liar? If so, then keep coming back to her. She doesn't want you. You cannot change her mind. You'll just be that pathetic, pitiful friend who hangs around while she moves on and marries someone else. She doesn't want you. Need I say it again? She doesn't want you. Believe her words. She isn't trying to trick you. Don't be the weirdo kookoo bananas crazy friend. Move on, because this train has left the station and you weren't on it.

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  • Claude
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    The "friend-zone" is another way of saying she is not attracted to you. This typically results from NGN (Nice Guy Neediness). The paradox here is that the less you need her, the better your chances with her. Mainly, it's usually a confidence issue.

  • 8 years ago

    I suggest you try the friends thing for a little while then get closer to her. Always make her smile and spend time with her. First do things a boyfriend might do but not too obvious, like maybe give her your jacket whwn she's cold, hug her when you can and send her a text that says 'morning beautiful'. Just be subtle. Nd then it'll go farther and she'll like it and get used to it. Before you know it you'll both me laughing while watching a romantic comedy, look onto each other's eyes and meet each orher's lips.

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  • 8 years ago

    Um, you don't look like anything older than 10 years old :S

    But, if you really really like her, then just stay as a friend and hopefully she'll change her mind about you. She'll probably feel closer to you and like you more ^.^

    Source(s): I was friend-zoned once, I am now happy with my boyfriend
  • 8 years ago

    There ain't no "getting out of the friend zone" haha

    Honestly you are stuck unless have a way of getting her to loooove you ;)

  • Finwie
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    You can't do anything since you can't force her feelings. The only thing you can do is to wait and hope, or try to get over her.

  • 8 years ago

    Tell her how you feel about her . Do not back out

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