Need girls advice! Clubbing!?

As a girl the best thing a guy can do when he chats to you in a club is listen to your body language.

If a girl doesnt seem interested leave her be.

Thats something a lot of guys dont do, they take disinterest as a sign they need convincing.

As for things to start the conversation, liquid luck doesnt hurt.

You could just say something like 'I dont want to seem weird or anything but I must say you're very pretty' etc.

When a guy says that to me in a club, its a lot better than the ones that say things like 'You alright sexeehh?'

Dont's:

- Dont put your arm around her when you greet her. If things go well it may lead to that, but dont start with physical contact

- Dont get your mate to ask her to talk to you. Its shocking the amount of guys who have done this to me in the past. Its childish and not a turn on lol

- Dont come up to them in a big group. A group of girls suddenly having a group of guys hitting on them will make them uncomfortable. Approach the group by yourself.

- Dont approach her when shes alone. If shes at the bar, then thats a bit different. But if a group of lads come up to a girl by herself it can be intimidating.

Do's

- You can offer to buy her a drink.

- Take note of her reaction. Does she honestly seem like shes interested or is she just being polite? If not, then leave her be. I'll smile and have a chit chat with a guy Im not interested in if he hits on me in a bar, as I dont want to be rude. But I will keep my answers short and will avoid eye contact, talk to my friends etc.

- Act normal. Most girls would rather you didnt have the 'on the pull, I'm so cool' persona.

Dont ask for her number unless things go well.

Don't be afraid of rejection....just keep trying until you succeed. And just say "Hey what's your name? You're really beautiful!" If she seems interested, ask her to dance with you.

FIRST, don't be afraid be rejected. Because remember, you are in a Club & "SOME"crowds/ singles like to go to the Clubs to just have fun (DANCE)... I'm not saying having a little convo isn't fun, it's just their will be people that may ignore you. Just a heads up :) SO, AS A GENTLEMAN, don't approach her right away! Just try to get her attention first (not a stalker kind of stare, lol) - maybe warm up to her before having a conversation. Step by step.

!!CONFIDENCE not Co-ck-i-ness. Try to make her laugh or just smile :) because girls/ ladies enjoy a guy that don't come off creepy.

WHAT NOT TO SAY: 'your smokin or hot' & some other cheesy pick-up lines.

Say something like, you're Beautiful. Be yourself, because at the end of the day you are you. Your personality is your own. Personality beats looks.

Keep hands to yourself. Remember be a gentleman

GO to the Club and Dress to impress haha, don't over do it.

Don't drown yourself with cologne.

AND remember, it is a club... just have fun!!

i once gave my number in a club

normally i really dont

adding someone on fb is easier than getting the number

It was a night where not many people were in the club and all the boys were like surrounding me and coming talk to me

I honestly judge em very superficial, if they dont look attractive to me, i just chat along, but will neeeeveeer give my number

Im just polite, some girls will just ignore u

What the guy did was just be around, and watch me dance, since he looked good i was flattered :p (superficial me) and he just came up to me and said hi and started a random conversation And just bc he had something to tell, he seemed smart and he was kinda my age and i actually had a nice conversation and then we danced and you know..he asked my number and i wanted to refuse, but then i thought "what the hell" Thats how a guy in a club can score my number.. hard work isnt it?

It's pretty awkward talking or asking girls to dance the first couple going to the club.

I turned 18 last year, and I find getting drunk before doing it usually works a lot better..

Just don't act stupid and you'll be fine. She'll give you her number no matter what if she finds you attractive enough, so it really doesn't matter what you say...

Just start with 'hi' and let the convo flow from there, don't stress out you will be fine. If you want to be a gentleman refrain from comments about her body or sexual comments.

i'm confused too