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How do I overcome my nervousness?

I'm taking a part-time job at an Fand B outlet...

The most common criitism from people around me is that I get is that I get agitated and nervous easily.

Everytime when my strict managers and co-workers come in... I do get told that I'm but more of what are stated about myself...

Even during my school times I face getting agitated and nervous alot... even my sister ask me why am I like that...

I'm currently in my 4th week in this company

, I need to overcome this...

So... Can any of you help me with this?

Or am i just born that way?

Thanks!

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
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    The causes for nervousness are due to huge accumulation of impurities in the mind and imperfections in the body. It may be also due to ignorance, illegitimate desires or indulgence in unwanted pleasures, urges, impulses, emotions like envy pride, hatred, anger, fear, jealousy, lust greed, conceit, pride, temptations, etc. and bondage. These impurities and imperfections spoil our clarity of understanding, create disturbances in the mind and thus rob our tranquility, judgment and observation capacity, mental approach, etc. resulting in oscillation, distraction and distortions.

    The restlessness in the mind gives nervousness to the body. It is because of the bad impressions that have gathered within us. These impressions, particularly those of an emotional one are of the nature of attachment and aversion and they cause for nervousness.

    Actually the mind has the natural tendency to remain calm but the adverse forces within us make the mind move, oscillate and waver. The more the mind is purified, the more the mind becomes calm and in the calm mind, there is “knowledge” Calm mind is capable of being concentrated and knowledge grows faster through concentration of the mind.

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  • 8 years ago

    I'm a nervous wreck too , just breath,

    inhale count to 4 ,

    exhale count 4

    drink water .... that would help,

    if this doesnt help get counseling

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