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Help, need advice about long distant relationship.?
I've been dating his Japanese girl for two years. She went back to Japan because she finished her student visa. She has the chance to come back but she doesn't want to, she'll only visit. I went to visit her a few times during my holiday and she asked me to try live in Japan. I said no because its impossible for me to find work there. Pretty much, we just Skype every night and schedule dates to visit each other but how long can this last? I love her to death and I fear she'll give up or had enough. I'm worried about this long distant thing, everyone keeps telling me it never works.
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- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
They rarely do work but here's the harsh truth. If you two really are in love, then you both would want to be with the other regardless of what country you are in. Tell her how you feel and be realistic about your wants and intentions. From what you described, I'm seeing that you like her, but your love for her is not that strong, otherwise you would have picked up and moved to Japan already. With all this being said, also make sure you are not the only one putting the effort into the relationship. She too will have to make sacrifices to be with you.