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I cheated on my boyfriend. Help :(?

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. A year and a half ago he broke up with me for 2 weeks for another girl and had sex with her. I didn't know about this and he asked me back out so I said yes. A month after, I found out through his facebook messages what he had done and I was devastated. I forgave him though. I was still so hurt that when I went on holiday with my friend a month later I slept with someone. It lasted for about ten seconds because I realised how stupid it was and that I loved my boyfriend. To this day I regretted it and 2 nights ago after a couple of drinks I confessed. It's been a year and a half since it happened and I don't know if my boyfriends going to forgive me. He is very mad about it and says he doesn't know if he can stand to be around me. I love him so so much I can't physically stand the thought of him leaving me. I just want to know if anyone's gone through anything similar and how I can prove to him that he can trust me and that I will never ever keep anything from him again. Please help :( I haven't stopped crying for 2 days and I just need some advice :( thanks

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  • 8 years ago
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    I went through almost the same thing with my gf and I was able to get over it eventually but it took some time he has to work it out with himself if its meant to be an he truly loves you then he will forgive but he needs to build up that trust again an it's gunna take some time. I hope everything works out for you and just try hard to remain faithfull

  • 8 years ago

    I think that you guys are on even grounds now.... Anyways if you are so upset after getting ever with a man who did you wrong in the first place then you just need to earn his trust back.. You just need show him that be trusted. I would tell him that you want to start off new. I mean after what the the both of you two have been through he should understand.. tell him that you are sorry. Tell him Tat you love him ane that you are going to change

  • 8 years ago

    He is being selfish! He broke up with you for another girl then asked you back out and now he's mad?? He broke up with you and did xyz with another girl then realized that you're the one. Now, you were just doing the same thing but it did not take you 2 weeks to realize that he's the one. His love for you will prove that he can trust you. Give him some time and he'll figured it out. or else you're more in love with him than he does with you...

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I think you were right to be honest with him. I'm afraid there isn't a lot you can do now but wait for him to come around- the balls in his court.

    So long as he is aware of how much you regret it and how much you don't want to lose him he should at least be able to talk through it with you. Good luck,

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  • 8 years ago

    Right away I can tell that you don't want yo take responsibility for your actions. You telling us what your bf did in the past is irrelevant. You took him back and that ended that. Now you cheated on him which makes you a whore. What you should try to do is not open your legs to the first guy who sweet talks you.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Why u crying?he cheated on u

    its fair to say what you did was fair because its even now

    tell him that if he doesnt forgive u then why did i forgive u wen u cheated on me

  • 8 years ago

    You shouldn't have cheated on him, two wrongs don't make a right, if you actually loved him like you say you do , cheating would of never came to your mind .

    Source(s): CommonSense
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    you 2 need to go to couple counseling that is the best chance of your relationship to make it

  • 8 years ago

    Break up. He cheated on you. you cheated on him.

    Obviously that relationship will not work out. Save yourself and him future problems and break up now.

  • Sam
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Once a cheater, always a cheater. You're in the wrong and you have to accept that.

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