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What should you do when....?

you like someone you have like zero chance with? Have you ever wanted someone so bad but you just know you're not going to get it because that's exactly how I feel about this girl. Keep in mind this has nothing to do with "a lack of confidence" I am nothing but confident some people have even ventured to call me arrogant. But there is this girl who is simply put perfect(or at least as close to it as someone can get). We actually do talk or text every now and then and we could be considered friends. Problem is I have like no chance in hell of getting her so what should I do?

Update:

I repeat this is NOT an issue with my CONFIDENCE. So please stop bringing that up

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  • 8 years ago
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    I liked this girl soo much for such a long time. I never thought Id get to date her, but I did. And it was amazing.

    Don't lose hope. It seems unlikely, but it will happen

  • 8 years ago

    Stop being held back by someone you can't have. Move on and start your search for a soulmate. What were the chances that the absolutly perfect person for you in the whole world is this girl, AND of all the paths in the world your paths have crossed AND you are also friends AND you haven't even lived half of your life yet?! This means that you probably aren't meant to be together, maybe u should just stay being friends seing as you like her as a person, but meet new people - there are other people who you definately will have a chance with :)

    Source(s): Logic, goodluck :)
  • 8 years ago

    STOP what you are doing. Do not text her these friendly messages etc.

    Be the man, and charm her with you text messages. But first of all. Ask her out. Tell her she is attractive and you would like to get to know her more. Confidence is important no matter what.

    If she says no, just be polite and do not answer her text until she calls.

    If you do not try you will not know.

    Many years ago I said the same thing to myself " wanted someone so bad ". The years after years, I realised that you can meet someone better who can meet your needs. There is a reasonable amount of women who will make you happy, just go and fish.

  • How do you know you have no chance? You said that you'll talk or text every now and then and you'll can considered be considered friends. The way I see it is that if there is a good conversation, there are real possibilities there. So I would say you do have a chance. Sometimes friends become more than friends.

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  • 8 years ago

    If this was me then I would be really pleased that a guy had the confidence to tell me that he liked me or asked me to the movies and give him extra credit for it. If I didn't see him in that way then we would still be friends. If you really have the confidence then just ask her to the movies. Hope this helps :)

    Source(s): experiance
  • 8 years ago

    Aww.. You never know u hv no chance with.. Is it abt looks? Bc some ppl dont worry abt that. You seem nice and if you do talk thats good.. Maybe start talking to her more.. And see whats up and get to know her. Then maybe you can hang out and become close.

  • 8 years ago

    Don't freak out, just be yourself. I know girls like a funny guy, so making her laugh, supporting her in whatever she does by asking her how she's doing in whatever sports or activities she does, and just letting her vent to you. Girls have problems, and always appreciate someone to listen, even if you have no idea what she's talking about.

    Source(s): I'm a girl.
  • 8 years ago

    Your putting yourself down, if you believe you will never have a chance with her then you won't.

    Talk to her more, learn things about her, and just listen to her, just don't question her too much, she would think you are a stalker/weirdo.

    You can get her, and you most likely will.

    I believe in you!

    :'D

  • 8 years ago

    What's this girl's name? Keep trying to talk to her and she might come around. DO NOT be pushy, don't brag, just be friendly and caring. I'm a girl, I know how a guy gets me to like him.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    you just answered my question, so ill answer yours. Im sure if you really tell her and show her how you feel, you will end up having her. You should just go for it and see what happens. I know it can be hard sometimes , but you can do it :)

    Source(s): life
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