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HEEEEEEELLLLLLP PLLLEASE IM CONFUSED!!!!!!?

Now I'm in love with someone who when I met him he was depressed, going through a break up, lonely, and hurt because his Ex cheated on him and left him alone during the nights to go sleep with other people. He says that the day he saw me he fell in love and I made him happy. Mind you I didn't know he even existed that day. Anyways the months go by and now we are together. I've met his family his daughter, his childhood best friend who is now one of my best friends and we love each other and he's happy.....BUT!!!! low and behold his EX who was a nasty slut keeps trying to pull him back. He keeps sending him txt messages and facebook messages talking bout how they were together and how he misses him. Everytime I turn around His ex always wants to talk to him in personal in his room like WTF!?!?!? And the sad thing about it is that I let him go over there to discuss there problem. But if i were to do something like that he would be mad. The other day I could even tell my friend Happy Birthday without him getting all offend about me talking to other dudes

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  • 8 years ago
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    I don't think its gonna work out, to keep it plain and simple, he has trust issues, being cheated on leaves a permanent scar that will eventually drive everyone he meets mad. If you can't even say happy birthday to a friend how can you ever talk to a male guy, ever? He's gonna drive you crazy with his jealousy and trusting problem.

    Also, he will never get completely over his ex, there share a bond which is the child, that means if you decide to stay, you will be seeing his ex frequently and she might just try to hook up with him in order to hurt the relationship you guys have. You have to be very careful. They are obligated to keep in contact for the sake of the child. What does he think about his ex? does he seem all happy and smiley when she comes around? does he talk to her in a non-relating child discussing, such as talking to her asking her what she is up to? Just because she writes to him all the time doesn't mean he has to respond.

    That's a lot to deal with hun. It's best to talk about it. Tell him how you feel. If he flips, then move on, the headaches are not worth it. GOODLUCK!

    Source(s): me
  • 8 years ago

    WOW...y do people need strangers opinions in there relationship??? WTH!!! But if ya want Dr. Yahoo to tell ya...then move on. Find equal respect or keep asking yahoo for their opinions n b miserable. Commom sense get some. Have a great day w/ur drama. =)

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    8 years ago

    there is so much drama here

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