Why am I not sensitive to my boyfriends bullied past 10 points..?

Now before you judge me let me explain….

My boyfriend was bullied in elementary school, this is like grade 3-8 and he’s in 10 now. I don’t know exactly what happened but I guess he wasn’t well like by other kids. My boyfriend was held back (he’s not smart at all and barley passes school) and he’s not good in difficult situations or holding back his anger. I think he was called names and had mean things said about him. My boyfriend is fit but most people don’t find him attractive. (I’m guessing ugly and stupid jokes). So if someone said or did anything to him he wouldn’t respond well. (I’m guessing he made it worse). Pretty much he got the bulling everyone got as a kid though he makes it seem that he was super bullied.

Now, I’m the complete opposite. I’m very smart and have been on honor role forever. I’m not popular but I have my friends. I’m not bad in difficult satiations and I’m good with dealing with bullies. As a kid I was bullied about my weight. Even today the subject of my weight is sensitive but I’m not bad with it. I have forgiven kids that bullied me and moved on. I moved away and I guess as I grew up and learned to deal. I’m no longer affected by it and I have a new sense of self-confidence. Everyone friends and non-friends think I’m too good for my boyfriend. I dated him because he was very sweet even though he wasn’t every popular. I have even been made fun of for dating him, though I brushed this off cause it’s my life and I’ll date whom I want.

My boyfriend brings up his bullied past all the time! Around friends and family. I guess since people already think he’s an ugly loser it’s embarrassing for them to know. I also call friends bitches, sluts and jerks as jokes. (like most friends do). But when I jokingly call him a name he gets super sad serous looking. When I ask why he says “I have just been called a lot of names..blahblahblah. I was joking! Like get over it already. He says that stupid speech to my friends too who hate him and don’t care. Everyone is bullied and I don’t think he got any worse treatment then other kids.

He also always has to touch me and update statuses about dating me saying, “I love you”. Normally this would be sweet but it feels like he’s trying to show off the fact he has a girlfriend. Which I hate. It feels like that’s the only reason he dates me, just to say he has a girlfriend.

Also once he got a bbm message from someone I don’t know calling him a loser. He got really depressed and texted them calling them an *** hole. ( he didn’t deal with it well). He went the rest of the day acting all sad.If it had been me I would have either ignored the text or made a joke. Like I would have said I know I was 10 votes of off wining American idol or something funny. (I know that wasn’t very funny but still).

Normally I feel bad for people who have been bullied. But with my boyfriend he bulling issues **** me off and kind of embarrass me. Like why can’t he just get over it and move on. This happened years ago! He always brings up like all the time. Everything he dose he looks super sad and depressed. Why am I not sensitive? Is it because I think I'm better than him? Am I a bad person? Is it because my friends hate him?