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What would u think about a girl that?

Was led on by a guy. She fell in deep like with him, and they had been talking for a while. They really connect on a mental level. Then boom, he tells u that he is in a marriage. An unhappy one. What would u think about a girl that decides to remain friends with him? Chill, watch anime and smoke green? The line is never crossed, there's sexual tension but no action will ever be taken. Would YOU be able to respect this girl?

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  • 8 years ago
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    I think you're walking on thin ice here. Why would you want to waste your time with a guy who is unavailable? You're just going to be torturing yourself to keep experiencing that kind of sexual tension and know that nothing can happen. I don't even want to think of all the energy you'll have to expend to fight it off! And for what? Is it really worth it? Why not find a guy who IS available, who you can fully invest in AND get love and respect back? Even if you tell yourself you're content with just being friends, you know that deep down you're not. After all you say you feel in deep with him and connected on a mental level....so you are always going to be hopeful. And to have hope when there is nothing to hope for is just devastating. And as to whether or not I'd be able to have respect for such a girl....I am more prone to have disrespect for the GUY who led you on in the first place. That is way low and let me tell you, he is NOT worth your time and trouble just for that. What a lowlife thing to do. I'm sorry you have to deal with this because you deserve much better. Best of luck to you!

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