Need help Do you think he's right or just saying this so I will do it on my own?

YOU MUST DO THIS! (caps for emphasis)So he won't get a job? Get him listed as the baby's true father when the baby's born, then get an order of child support. Use regular. legal means. You are probably eligible for all sorts of free help, including legal. Then he can't wiggle around, saying "oh, I bought all the diapers, the stroller, the crib, etc.". No. He needs to make regular monthly payments (it'll probably be to the government, then to you) to provide HIS child HE made with adequate living. YOU AREN'T A MONEY GRABBER!!! What a nasty, no-good low-down thing to say to you. But it says worlds about him: HE IS A LOSER and doesn't want to work. But now, he HAS to own up to being an adult. The child support bureau will gladly find him a job.

I BEG you, don't let him trample you into anything else. He's a bully and must be handled by the State. I'd stay away from this guy, because he won't like this. But he is just SCARY. Bad news.