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Should I message him???PLZ HELP :(?
This guy I fell in love with and still am moved to Canada a year ago. We never dated but we had that connection. After he moved, we kept in touch though Facebook. He claims he only liked me as a friend and he dated a girl for a week while in Canada so it seems like he's doing perfectly fine while I'm still crying. He calls me sweetheart and tells me he loves talking to me but barely ever starts our convos. So I don't know if he loves me like I love him. Should I keep messaging him or wait till he messages me because I'm scared that might ruin our friendship and just like completely stop us from talking. Also Valentines Day is coming up and I hope he messages me. How do I be flirty without being obvious??? I'm am sooo confused and depressed:( Plz give me advice
4 Answers
- 8 years ago
I'm not sure if he loves you the same way, but are you sure you want to start a long distance relationship? No hand holding, no kissing, no dates. It's not that easy! I'm assuming that you guys are teenagers. Do you really think that a guy, especially a teenage guy, wants be in a relationship without any physical contact? Not that I'm saying that he only cares about sex, but to a point, guys really can't control their appetites. Can you handle having the emotional without any physical connection?
I see my boyfriend once every 3 weeks or so and for 3 months together in summer and were dating for 8 months before we became long distance. Even with how often we see each other, he still looks like a stranger when I see him again!
My advice, get over him while you can.
Source(s): Me! - 8 years ago
You should wait for him to message you because you don't want to be continuously messaging him. If it's to be it will happen but this relationship seems one-sided right now. Chances are that he doesn't love you. You'll get over him eventually because sometimes you can have a connection without it actually meaning something, trust me, I've been there. Try taking a step back from this whole thing and reevaluate why you "love him" and how you fell "in love" with him. You might realize you don't "love him" as much as you think you do. Good Luck!
- 8 years ago
You should talk to him. You guys are still friends, so whats the harm in saying " hey"
But dont be too pushy, because he is in canada and he may have a girlfriend or may have a crush on a girl. But honestly I dont think things are going to go too far being that you guys only communicate through social media.
- 8 years ago
I don't think it will work out. Your best bet would be to get over him. Just spend a weekend watching sappy romance movies with a box of tissues and a lot of ice cream crying for the whole weekend. It will get a lot or possibly all of the grief out of the way. Or talk to someone about it.
