My Boyfriend=Sisters Ex?

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So today I found out that my current boyfriend used to talk to/sorta was my sisters ex. Me a me my sister were talking about our past experiences and the his name (Brian) came up. When she was talking about him I was in the back of my mind thinking if it was my boyfriend. They used to talk back in the summer and they have had sex many times. I was on my sisters phone and there was a message from him from Facebook and that's when I knew it was him. My sister doesn't know that's my boyfriend currently and my boyfriend doesn't know she's my sister. Another thing that kinda made me upset was he messaged her saying wassup baby or something like that? It's like why are you taking to other females. But I don't know what to do. I'm going to talk to him about it tonight. But my question is do you think I should continue a relationship with him knowing that he has slept with my sister as well as me? I also feel like he kinda should have had some idea because we look alike and we have the same last name.

? · Accepted Answer

MAURY! MAURY! MAURY!! dont do it.

Anonymous · Answer

Wow that's a sticky situation..I kinda know where you're coming from but the only way it should be okay is if your sister is completely over him..if not then I would say break it off..especially if he messaged her that, doesn't sound like he's over her if that was while you guys were together when he messaged her that. You deserve someone who only has eyes for you, NOBODY else!! I would confront him about it definitely and get to the bottom of it because the longer you put up with stuff like that and stay with him, the more you're going to hurt in the end and that's not worth it. So just confront him & if the answers are not what you think is to be true or what you feel in your heart, I'd say take a step back and break up with him for sure girl! Good luck!!:)

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alice · Answer

Oh no! Sorry hun but you need to break it off with him!! He is using you to get back with your sister or to hurt her all the signs are there he's not stupid. He knows exactly what's he's doing if you guys ha e the same last name look sorta alike a d live in the same community as him then it's clear. He wants your sister to notice he's using you. I have had the same thing happened to my friend Alex you need to break it off with him. If he's gonna message other girls saying that then that's a problem he's gonna cheat. And he pretty much is cheating mentally. And if he's with you it's CLEARLY OBVOUIS he knows your her sister if he messaged her that 
You need to GET AWAY!!! FAR AWAY FROM HIM
Yor only gonna hurt yor self and your sister once she finds out. He's a player a d a loser you can do better

xh4m4x · Answer

I have a feeling your being naive. These days I don't think these is such a thing as not knowing whose who, especially when Facebook is involved. IMO, I think he does know that your her sister and since you said he sent a txt to your sister that was a little flirty raises a red flag.

? · Answer

That's really weird. I think you should give him a chance to explain himself but if you're not happy with his response break up with him. It may be a little weird knowing he's slept with your sister before but if there's a reasonable answer to this problem you should give him a chance.

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if you were dating this guy when he said what's up baby then dump his ***.  Guy's don't say what's up to have a nice conversation about the weather.  And dump his *** anyways, you dont want your sister's  sloppy seconds.  And if it didnt work for your sister then he's probably not right for you either.

Anonymous · Answer

so what. date him.

Chris · Answer

Thats messed up. if you had a kid in this day and age(because ages ago men were subject to having many wives and i think at times they would have sisters also) how can you tell your child that his or her aunt was their fathers wife. but hey, up to you.

CountryGirl · Answer

i would break up with him...the idea of him having slept with my sister and then me...turn off and kinda mad if he facebooked her and called her baby.

caleb · Answer

Dont go crazy and end your relationship...just talk it out...ask his side of the story before u accuse him

xM Pb* · Answer

NO stupid!!! he's using you to get back at her.  god dump him and tell your sister !! Besides, haven't you ever heard of that whole thing where if he kissed your sister and then you kiss him it's like you kissed your sister?? Well now it's like you had SEX with your sister! You kissed his mouth that kissed your sisters coochie previously. So you've kissed your sisters cooch! jesus! Good job!

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