How do you get over your first love?

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I'm 16 and this guy is almost 18. I've been with this guy for 3 years. I decided to break up with him because he's changed and isn't the same person, and wasn't taking responsibility for anything and cared about other stuff more then me, atleast that's what it seemed like. He didnt have faith like I do, and a lot more reasons. I thought it was going to be easy because I don't want to be with him, but apart of me still is there and it's not easy, it's really hard a matter of fact. I just don't know what to do, I know I need to move on for the better, but he was my first everything, and my first love. What do I do? How do I manage to get through it without putting myself through hell with tears and pain? The memories, the good times, I just can't let go of. I can't get him out of my head. I know it's something to get over alone but I would appreciate any help or advice. Thanks.

Keysha J · Accepted Answer

You right being out a relatship isn't easy, and who ever said it was must had been not been telling the truth. But also it hard because  everything remind you of him and you think about all those time good and bed time, what you said and what you shouldn't had said.Anyway the only thing i can really tell you is to take it,  one day at a time.I know you miss that person, but you desire better and want better for yourself, beside everything happen for a reason. And like you had said you two grown apart and he wasn't no longer what you was looking for. So learn from this/him i mean grown from what you had been though in this relateship with him and when the next guy come along that you want to be in a relateship with then you know what you really want and desire. "ONE DAY AT A TIME"

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How do you get over your first love?

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