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is it wrong to go to a guy friends house to chill when i have a boyfriend?

so ive been a friend to a guy from college for about 3 months now and he invited me over for a movie, he knows i have a boyfriend and told him nothing would happen we ae strictly friends, do you think its a good idea to go over to his house and have a few drinks just us two? im not the smartest at these situations please help

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    If you think it's alright, then go ahead dear :) But if it's me, I would tell my boyfriend about it first. Just so that he won't have any strange thoughts when he heard that I went to another guy's house without him knowing. But to be honest, why don't you ask a few more girl and guy friends that you both know to his house to watch a movie? This way, it won't be awkward and nothing will happen :) But still, it's your choice. All the best <3

  • I wouldn't. Watching a movie is something you'd do with your boyfriend because you get cuddled up. I highly doubt that he wont cuddle you whilst your watching a film and I believe its totally wrong to go to another boys house whilst in a relationship especially to do something like watch a film which is really a boyfriend/girlfriend thing to do. I know that my partner wouldn't be happy if I went to another guys house especially where there is alcohol involved.

    Source(s): Experience
  • 8 years ago

    How would you feel if he went round a girl's house to watch a mivie with her? Guy's know what other guys are like so your boyfriend would probably be a bit uneasy with the idea, if he's fine with it then you've got a trusting man.

  • 8 years ago

    it's all about the understanding between a bf and gf. if you know that ur boy friend does not like this type of chill you should not go for it. and if your boyfriend knows that guy, you should ask him about it. and the most effective point is 'in which way you take chilling with ur guy friend.'

    Source(s): my mind ...
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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    As long as you are not sleeping with him, the boundaries are clearly set, and , um , of course your boyfriend is cool with it...... then have fun.

    Source(s): married mother of 2 that has plenty of guy friends
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Its perfectly fyn hun ... Bt let ur bf know abt dis ... Or else he might hv odr thoughts ...

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