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Why do other white people dislike me?

some background information about me. I am a 21 year old woman, white, and i don't have too many friends, and my bf when he tries to bring me around his white friends (he is mexican/mestizo) they pretty much always don't like me. I don't try to talk like i'm not white or anything. They say I am loud, obnoxious, and "I think I am a bad ***".

I have no idea how i gave the impression of thinking i'm a bad ***, and i don't see why they laugh at my jokes and seem to hang on every word i say when i am there and then tell him they don't like me behind my back. I have been nothing but nice to them until i found out about that. I bum them my cigarettes, i cook for them, i smoke my other smokable plants with them, i drink my drink with them, well not since i found this out. i told him to keep his ingrate friends away from me. but it is not just his white friends, it seems to be a common theme with white people disliking me.

I'm not saying this to be arrogant just to give you the idea of the kind of person i am, I am smart more than a lot of people(i only say more than most people cause an iq test told me so), but i don't try to flaunt it or hide it, I am pretty, a little overweight though, I am not especially confrontational but i will say something if i have something to say and the person i want to say it to is there, I do have a habit of saying whatever i am thinking, I am funny, and i have been through and survived alot, i don't often talk about it, but maybe that is where the bad *** thing comes from. Also sometimes i have a temper problem but i have worked on it a lot since i was a teenager and none of them have seen it. i don't know. i guess that is what i am asking yahoo for.

Update:

All his friends are guys... I have my bff (another white woman) and me and my bf are friends with her bf who is also mestizo and i have a friend who is questionably gay and mestizo.

Update 2:

they are the ones who said that they don't like me, when he told them he didn't want to go to things they were excluding me from they just stopped inviting him. It has been ten months and things between me and his white friends only continue to get worse.

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  • 8 years ago
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    it's just beacause you don't like yourself &think that they aren't like you

    just be less talketive and try to do your best

    they like you

    take it easy be happy

  • 8 years ago

    They probably don't like you because you're fun and they aren't. You clearly have something they don't. That's one of the most biggest reasons why women don't like each other. They're jealous of you

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    hey be on track....

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