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WHAT TO DO I AM SO ANNOYED?

I don't know what to do? my sister qho is older than me she annoys me like crazy. She like to transgress a lot. Like my mom would be yelling at me and she would randomly but in and say stuff like "yea, I agree" or she would just be running her mouth about me.My school is doing a play about a girl who is good then goes down the wrong path and my sis would put in comments like " you need to get on the right path" or I am in so many clubs and have hardly have any time to do anything we have a meeting for rhe club and I would say "omg I have no time for this meeting" and she would get all mad and say "if we did not need you youwould not be in this play" I try to tell my mom but shes just limeyou need to stop letting what she says get to you HOW THE HECK DO I DO THAT!!!!!!!!!! I try but it makes me so mad I usually end up wanting to punch a wall in plz help

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  • 8 years ago
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    Your mother is right. Even if your mother told her to stop she is still going to do it to you. You cannot change other people. Your sister is choosing to be a jerk and you cannot do anything about her. You can however change your reaction to her. Who cares what she thinks? You are giving her too much power over your emotions. You can decide if you want to be angry or not. Instead why not laugh at her for being a moron? Her remarks are very juvenile and you need to see them as such. She does it because she knows it annoys you. Once she realizes she cannot push your buttons she will get bored with it. It might take awhile but why allow her to work you into a state of frenzy? You are playing right into her hands. You are putty in her hands. Think about it. You might also look up how to deal with anger issues. All you have to do is quit giving her all of this power over you. It is as simple as that.

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