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I feel rejected...can someone help? 10 points?
i met a guy in september who was super sweet and nice, he worked at a club (hes 28 years old & i'm 25) we went on two dates and i really felt a deep connection with him, but he didnt ask me out again but when i would go to the club he would talk with me forever. I found out through friends he likes to sleep around very often and thats not my style, he knows that. Also, that he is a "forever alone" type of guy, saying to ppl how he'll never find love and doesnt deserve to be loved and also a hes a hipster. whenever he sees me now, he says hi and tries to kind of flirt...
i feel really rejected and hurt because he just forgot about me and not we barley speak. Im a really good girl, and im upset because he didnt see that. i wanted to date him, but he pulled away.
can someone help me and explain why?
thanks so much
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11 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
Just forget about him. If he's not your type, then move on. Otherwise, get to know him more and be his friend and try to change him or something. It doesn't hurt to be friends.
- George WLv 58 years ago
Why did he pull away? The answer, sweetie, is he pulled away because he is a jerk. He sleeps around and he sees that you are not into that kind of a relationship. He wants to be free to continue his lifestyle to see how many women he can score with. Be very thankful that you have seen his true colors before you got involved with the creep. So now you can move on and look for someone who shares your values and appreciates you for your true worth. If you ask God to help you find the right one, He will. He did for me and we've been married for over 43 years and still in love.
Source(s): I'm a grandpa that has done a lot of livin' and learnin' in 80 years. - Anonymous8 years ago
People works at a bar has a high chance of not having stable relationship.
Simply because its an entertainment kind of work.
His duty is to entertain girls and does a little PR to guys.
It's not your fault you felt a connection with him, that's his aim,
So that girls would come back and have fun.
He's doing a good job with his work.
I don't think you should pay attention to him.
There are still a lot of guys out there who are sweeter and nicer than him and is not an entertainer.
You just happened to feel connected to the wrong guy.
Trust me, he's not worth to think to much about.
Girls who just wants to have fun, yeah they can go around him as often as they want.
But honey, If you want a relationship, he's really not what you want.
- 8 years ago
You know, it's pretty simple. You weren't what he was looking for. He knows you're a good girl, and he likes to sleep around. Good girls don't sleep around. So you're not a match. He saw that, and went elsewhere. That doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you, it just means you're not his girl. Often times we see dating as a game we either win or lose. Don't think of it like that. I prefer to think of dating more like buying shoes. There are a lot of great shoes out there I'd love to buy, but I don't because they don't fit me. It's better to leave them in the store so someone who really would be happy with them gets 'em. It might hurt to feel forgotten about, but really I think he stopped dating you because he respected you. A lesser man would have kept it going longer solely to try and get in your pants.
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- ?Lv 48 years ago
He probably thinks you'll want a relationship and if he's sleeping around, he probably wants something different. Because of this he either doesn't want to hurt you or sees no point in wasting your time.
Also, guys that sleep around tend to pull away if the girl isn't all over him. So maybe it's best to find someone else.
- 8 years ago
I think you upset because the guy you like don't act as you want.Life could have been much easier if others did what we wanted them to do.He is flirtatious and he likes to be flirtatious but you feel rejected because he doesn't act serious with you.You can NOT push others to be or act different and then get upset about it if they not.Besides if he wanted to be serious he could continue date with you and completely change his attitude towards women.It seems he acts totally disrespectful toward women and to you.Why do you want to be with him?To be heartbroken?
Ask yourself,do I want to be another victim of his game?or you wanna move on and find Mr.Right?
- 8 years ago
The bottom line here is: you are not compatible.
That's okay, that's what dates are for, to find out if you are compatible. He probably does like you, but from what you've heard he's probably not ready to settle in to a regular thing, even if it's somewhat casual. At least he's realistic about that and not trying to play you.
Move on.
- 8 years ago
If he knows he's gunna be alone forever then he only chose to be that way. If you heard he was a player then your prolly better off without him. You his mightve went on a date but since you didn't give him any of your cookie so to speak then my friend your gunna get the silent treatment or better yet just be acquaintance. Be happy honey he prolly would've cheated on you anyways just bein honest. Hope I helped.
Source(s): Personal experience - 8 years ago
I luckily understand most men. The bottom line is that if a mature guy actually likes you or is interested in you he will most likely do anything to get to know you and date you. This guy just seems like he wanted to hook up and he clearly sounds like the type to bounce from girl to girl.
- 5 years ago
OMG sex feels effective. And doggy type (from the back) that you may go deep and tough and rapid, and she or he'll make noises and her respiration will exchange. Foreplay is simply fun to make you two turned on and sexy and comfy:) and once they begin to get undress you just want them in you right now