who do you get mad at the husband or the whore?

At the person who broke your trust, the one that had a commitment with you.

The husband is the one that purposely broke the vows.

The professional whore just needs to make money

The whore that didn't know the husband was a husband is just another woman looking for love

The whore that knows the husband is a husband and sleeps with him anyways is not a very good person.

All in all, its still mainly the husbands fault.

Both, unless it was a short fling and the woman didn't know he was married. That would be the husband's fault because the other woman was just as much a victim of his as you. If it was 6 months or longer, that qualifies her as the whore because most smart women after a small period of time can find out info if he doesn't introduce her to family, friends, and co-workers. Unless he is rich enough to have a bachelor pad, he has to have a home to go to. I would think less than a couple of months and no home is a bad sign.

Husband more. HE was the one in the marriage. He was the one who stepped out of it. And if he wasn't looking/open to cheating, the "other woman" wouldn't even be an issue.

Yes, both of a couple are responsible for the health of the relationship, but it is the cheater's choice (and their sole responsibility for the consequences) to cheat - or not.

Well lets see he lies to the wife and the other woman.

So I say the husband he is the one that is married.

I would be at the husband.

The husband took the vows. Calling her names won't make him a better person.

Both. And the idiot wife.