This is all happening to fast?

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My boyfriend broke up with me because his family was having issues with me because of a tiny misunderstanding. We talk about being together forever and having kids and such.. He's so trustworthy and so real with me. Well we got in one fight and everything blew up. He said he needed time and space and that's what I gave him. But he got mad when I didn't meet him after first period and that I was talking to another guy (just as friends). And so he's sending mixed signals. He said he is going to get back with me he just doesn't know when. I won't see him at school for the rest of the year because he's gone but I'll see him at church and we could hang out on weekends if we wanted to. I want him more than anything and I felt myself throwing myself at him. Then I told him that I wasn't going to waste my time and that if he didn't want me then its his loss. But I don't want him to think I'm over him cuz honestly I want him more than anything in the world right now. I can't stop thinking about him and all the good moments we had. I've cried every night for the past two weeks and I haven't really eaten anything because my stomach is just in knots. I'm so lost and confused why this is all happening so suddenly.

Alyssa · Answer

I'm so sorry for all this trouble in your life.  Relationships are a good thing, but they can really cause problems, too.

Trust me that this really works: When he's sitting, doing nothing, go up to him and sit by him and start having a conversation with him by saying something simple, like, "Hi, *boy's name*! How's it going?"  He may be a bit surprised, but he most likely won't ignore you.  If he, for some reason, does, say something else simple, then be quiet and start doing something (writing, reading, etc. but NO texting).  If you pass him in the hallway, say hi and make a comment, like, "I love your shoes!" or "Have fun in chemistry!", then keep walking.  If you do those things every now and then, he'll most likely start to do the same back to you and maybe even open up about his feelings for you.  If you catch him looking at you, just smile and him, then go back to whatever you were doing.  All this makes you seem open and that you are still friends with him.  After a while, tell him that you miss him and want to get back together with him.  Tell him that he means the world to you (I can tell that he does by your description) and that the only thing you want is to be with him.

Good luck! I hope he gets back together with you!!! ;) <3

Anonymous · Answer

my advise is have a day to talk to him.explain that the person you were talking to was a friend.tell him you love him and want to be with him,but if he doesn't the same feelings try your best to move on.i know it hurts but if he breaks up with you over one fight it is something you should be careful.and he shouldn't be mad when you didnt see him after 1st period,he did say he wanted time and space,so just calmly tell him your feelings.that's the best you can do.don't get to worried.hope this helps some

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