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Dying to talk to her but...?

There is this one woman I like. And we talked a while ago, but sometimes we would stop talking and she would message me saying 'talk to you later' and then never talks to me later.

I know I should message her, but I am the kind of guy that really wants to be liked, because if I'm not, I feel bad about myself.

Anyhow, we saw each other in the mall once and like our eyes met lol weirdly. She texted me that day, but my phone died. I got home and we messaged and she said she wanted to hangout. When we first kinda added each other on Facebook, she said I was cute and wanted to talk. So obviously she wants to talk, but we never talked after that day at the mall. :-/

So I posted my story on Tumblr (I have it just for quotes) and yeah! Nothing happened. However, I kept running in these quotes that said "Just text her" or quotes like in that subject.

I checked her Facebook (never do) and she posted "Sometimes the people who don't talk to you are the ones that really want to."

Like dang it's a sign again... :/

I would love to message her and talk, but when she stops talking, I feel like I am not a good communicator and that she isn't interested and I'll be crushed.

I had top contributor status on here for singles and dating, but I cannot figure out my own problems lol.

So what should I do and/or say?

This other woman I met in the summer, said that she does the same thing with me. She just said "I scroll past your name everyday and want to talk but never know what to say."

So obviously I guess it happens with girls too! Soooo maybe Gabby does want to talk just like how I want to talk.?

Honestly, I'd love to talk to her, but I don't want to feel like **** when it doesn't go anywhere.

Update:

Haha thanks! I am usually talkative and I don't like those one word text's either, but sometimes it is very easy to lose conversation through text messaging.

It seems like a lot of girls want guys to message them first, but I am just afraid she is 'different' with that. I know a lot of people that liked I messaged them because they said "I honestly thought you would never message me back."

But I fear not having things work! I'd rather hope that she likes me, than know that she doesn't find me interesting. IT is so sucky and I am 20 years old so I really have to start to think differently and not always negatively. So I am finding encouragement!

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  • 8 years ago
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    Text her! I'm a girl, and there are guys that I want to text me but I don't want to make the first move. Girls are weird like that. I know I am anyways... Ask her questions in your message. I don't reply to one word texts. Make the conversation interesting. I love texting guys that ask lots of questions, and don't reply with one word texts/messages (i.e Yeah, ikr, ect.) Best of luck!

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