I feel gay but I don't want to be!?

"I feel gay but I don't want to be!?"

" The thing is that I don't want to be gay"

"Many time I think of gay sex.I even had a dream in which I walk up to him and **** him! "

"But I don't want to be gay first of all it's againced my religion (Christianity)."

Given all of that you are clearly gay. It's not a lifestyle choice so there's really nothing you can do about it. Your going to have to find a way to make your religion mesh with the rest of your life. Nobody here knows how to be not gay. And even if I did, I wouldn't tell you because there's nothing wrong with it and there's certainly nothing to be ashamed of.

Be proud!

EDIT: Freddy Mercury was NOT a Christian. He was Indian and a Zoroastrian. I should know, he's one of my idols. So yeah don't take comfort in that.

<sigh> And NO, MOST adolescents DON'T have these types of feelings. It's not going away.

Okay, what you do is try it, see how you feel, if you really dig doing it with a guy, then you could be gay or bisexual, depends if you still like girls.

And about the religion thing, you have to look at the big picture, your family will love you no matter what (hopefully) God doesn't exist, so you can relax and live happily, if dudes turn you on, then go for it, as for people who don't like you because of your sexual orientation, they aren't good people.

Just stay strong, and in the end, you can make your own choices, and you can tell if you're gay or not.

Good luck

@Matthew Freddie Mercury was Zoroastrian.... not christian

I'm a gay Church of God pastor's son, I understand where you're coming from. That being said, you're not choosing to be gay, you're choosing to let other people know it or not... some think it's genetic and others think it's an in-vitro hormonal issue but everyone knows its from birth, it's nothing you've done wrong or have chosen! There are progay churches and christian counseling organizations for kids of antigay families who are dealing with these very issues. God loves you and there's nothing wrong with you, "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well" (Psalm 139:14). if god fearfully and wonderfully creates each of us how likely is he to make a mistake with us? the bible is a book written by men who believed in slavery and that eating shrimp was a sin, the only person who counts in the bible is jesus; what does jesus say about gay people? NOTHING, it's ok to be who you are and it's ok to not tell anyone until you're ready. just alway know who you really are inside and don't pass judgement on those who are able to accept themselves because you're jealous (like I did in highschool when I was in the closet).

What do you think you shoud do, LIE about it? You don't think your Jesus will know your really gay or not? Same with other people. People will know and you'll look even worse being a liar. You better go with it. I certainly wouldn't lie and pretend and get married. That would be like someone you thought always loved you and cared for you suddenly said they really hated you and was only using you and pretending to like you. That would be a horrible life. Nothing wrong with being gay. I'm sure you know you're nothing like any of the bad things some people say gays are. That's proof that those bad things they say are the lies. Be who you are.

I doubt anyone wants to be gay, it's just the way you are.

Also, Freddie Mercury was religious and wrote or song Christian songs (Jesus from the first album, All God's people from Innuendo)

sorry dude

you need to accept the fact that you are gay and move on

there is nothing you can do to change the fact that you are gay

there are other gay Christians out there, meet up with some

I don't believe it's against christianity as a gay Christian. Have you got some time? read this essay and it explains why.

http://www.gaychristian.net/justins_view.php

this one's good too

http://www.soulforce.org/resources/what-the-bible-...

If you are gay the very best advice I can give to you is to accept yourself. There's nothing wrong with you; if you are changing is both impossible and needless. okay?

I had my gay experiences .. But if you don't want to be gay then just don't. It is perfectly natural to not love something about yourself... I am black and you know we all hate out hair but we want it to be different. So it is perfectly natural to not want to be gay... DONT take this the wrong way but watch a p0rn video with 2 women. If you become aroused then your not gay.

First of all, you can't choose to be gay. You're already gay or bisexual. :/ Bible says, "It is okay even if you're gay, but don't have gay sex". Simply being gay isn't a sin in Christianity.

That doesn't change the fact that you are.

You can choose to ignore it, but you will always be gay.