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Should I be embarrassed for not having sex?

Well, I'm 17 turning 18 in july. I've never had sex before,never had a handjob, a *******, never done anything sexual for that matter. The only thing I've done is kiss. Worst part is, people say that I'm good-looking which makes it even harder, knowing that i'm such a loser lol. I'm not socially awkward, I get along with women quite well. I just never get lucky I guess? I've had some opportunity in the past when I was 15-16 but I was scared and bailed out, but for nearly 2 years now I've completely stopped looking. I've had relationships before, were I've been cheated on and such but I guess lately has been the worst, I've been victim of drags and I'm sick of getting treated that way by women that I completely don't look for any relations with women. Although I would like to have some action, I don't look for it. And it doesn't come out of nowhere which digs an even bigger hole for myself. What should I do?

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago
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    Don't worry about it....sex is completely over rated...you've got heaps of time yet....enjoy being on your own...when the student is ready...the teacher will appear...honestly relationships can be painful and hard work ...make the most of being on your own and getting to know yourself while you young...it's a good thing.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Buddy sex isn't everything our generation has built it up to be more then what it is if your a Virgin who care. But I'm not telling you not to have sex if you really want it just network a bit by that I mean meet new people and to be honest virginity isn't this sacred thing you don't have to love someone to sleep with them that's where " bad bitchs" come in handy.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    The next girl you find attractive and go on a date with, try to have sex with her as soon as humanly possible. Women don't like to wait too long. This could be your only problem, really.

  • 8 years ago

    Naw, you should save your first time with the girl you gonna get married to

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