boyfriend on porn website?

Whether or not he should be looking at porn and whether or not you should let it upset you is a whole different issue. But I can tell you this: That email does not mean that your boyfriend has visited that porn site or any porn site recently. Once an email address ends up on a spam list it stays on there forever also many of these sites will pull address lists from non-porn lists, especially the "hot Russian girls" type of sites because those are less about the porn and more about trying to scam victims out of money by claiming that these girls "want to meet you". The "this is not spam" claim is just a trick they use to make the email seem more believable. So, I would suggest that you don't worry about it, and don't even mention it to your boyfriend because it's more than likely just from an old email list. Also I would suggest that you work on your trust issues. I mean, not only did you open this email, you followed the link included and now you're here trying to investigate it further.

First of all, by opening the email (* which they have tracking on--that you cant see)

Youve just verified his address to these people...and now they will sell it to other spammers

It said, this might appear in your junk mail..so all the rest of their junk mail will go to the

inbox & probably whoever else, they sell the address to.

You might have put a virus on his computer going to the site

Those kind of sites do things like that

The site was just created on Feb 1--- theyre spamming people to get business

on their site. There's very small chance your boyfriend found this on his own

They dont have enough traffic to be high up on any search

Creation date: 01 Feb 2013 16:00:06

Expiration date: 01 Feb 2014 16:00:00

Have a little trust in the guy.

Dont you dare tell you were snooping

or this trust issue will backfire back on you, big time..

Its called a "personal" computer for a reason.

Im not clicking on the link you posted... it could be dangerous considering

the integrity of the person who would put up a site like this.

Get a dog if you want a man you can neuter. You not being able to handle your boyfriend masturbating to porn is YOUR problem, it should not be his. So not only are you an insecure harpy that thinks she has a right to control every orgasm her boyfriend has, but you're also a snoop.

Many people get spam like that, it doesn't mean he watches it. I got a lot of spam from similar website when I never used to watch porn.

I can see how you can be concerned but be careful about going through his stuff. Its true that we should have a open relationship but you Dont want to know everything, trust me. We are all human and we all make mistakes, the most faithful spouses do/think/say things that they should from time to time. If hes trying to get rid of it, and hes making resonable progress. Let him be, if not then you will over pressure him and that could break the relationship.

I get spam daily from women (actually spambots) who have decided to write me because they "know" they're interested in me and that we can have a "meaningful relationship".

I post these letters to my Facebook account, with the response I'd like to send which is usually some variation of, "That's great, and thanks for writing -- but do you have a brother with a beard and a hairy chest because I'd really rather talk to HIM about a relationship!"

He's a boy. Let him watch porn.

First of all, it's not a big deal if he does. Second of all, you should have never betrayed his trust and gone through his laptop. Third of all, it sounds like it could be spam. But honestly, you have no right to make a big deal out of his "flaws" when you clearly have a few of your own.

I would ask him nonchalantly if he watches porn, and then bring up how you saw it in his email inbox by mistake one time when you were going too close it.

Make sure he's honest, and tell him how you feel.

He's perfectly entitled to look at porn. If you don't like it, that's YOUR problem, not his.