Me and my boyfriend cant seem to have sex, i'm way too small/tight for him?

don't worry cause i actualy had this same exact problem a few years ago and it was pretty easy to fix. i went to the doctor (which was kind of embarrising for me) and she explained that the problem was that my vagina wasnt quite flexible enough to accept my partners penis (it was pretty wide). she showed me how to do this exercise that really helped and i've never had trouble with sex since then (except when i stopped doing it for a while cause i was sick). i'll try to explain:

basically she showed me how to do this exercise called perineal massage and it makes your vagina more flexible kinda the same idea as when gymnasts stretch so they can do splits and stuff. usually they recommend it for pregnant women before birth but you dont need to be pregnant for it to work. i could try to tell you how but its probably better to just give you some links to some websites that explain it better then i could. try these:

http://www.ivillage.com/perineal-massage-your-how-...

http://www.pregnancycompanionapp.com/perineal_mass...

hope that helps! send me a message if you got any questions

I think you are just stressed out so it makes it harder and since it hurt you, you keep relating sex to pain so you probably dont get aroused enough. Even if your wet it doesnt mean that you are aroused enough. You need to relax to have sex but its true that it can be harder for some people. If you think you are too small, you can make it bigger. A vagina is flexible, I had the same problem and my doctor told me to use toy to make it bigger. And now it doesnt hurt me anymore. You have to train your vagina lol!

it might be something physically wrong with you so you might need to see a doctor. have you tried using lubricant gel? if so i would advice the two of you go see a doctor.

Offer him anal sex. In the mean time masturbate using thicker toys as you go along.

Have you tried lube?

you must practice more . cry a bit

GIVE IT TIME