how much looks mean in a relationship of husband and wife?

It means a lot if the relationship is pretty shallow and selfish. It means little if they love each other for who they are more than what they look like.

They should still be important because you should still be able to see the person you fell in love with and be sexually attracted.

There will be times when her the house is dirty, kids are running crazy and looks go out the window. That's understandable and shouldn't make the other partner love you any less.

Some people find looks to be everything, I dont know why that is.

But I myself want a little attraction to that personality, ya know?

So looks dont mean everything but we want to be attracted to that person as well.

looks mean zero when you really love someone. Looks fade as one grows older. Then what do you have if you don't have love?

not at all..love is everything