I'm attracted to black guys and my parents think I'm disgusting?

It's fine. Lots of girls I know love black guys and are dating them. I know I am . :)

hi there! I kind of know how you feel, although my parents didn't have the problem, but the rest of my family did. I always told my mother I was going to marry someone like zorro or alladin (dark skin, eyes etc.) so when I came home with a Portuguese guy, it wasn't a shock. The rest of my family, however had a massive problem and now regard my marraige as interracial and disgusting. They also don't like my kids. All I can say, is keep on going out with that guy. I don't think it's that you gow for black men spycifically, I just think they are the nice guys you have happened to meet. If you love this guy, then go for him and don't let people who are stuck in the past get in your way.

You have a preference and that is just fine.

You're parents won't accept you dating a black guy unless you do something even worth in there eyes.

That's how I got my parents to let me be.

I pretend to be gay for a week.

My mother wanted to kill me.

When she finally was ready to disown me, she said she would rather let me marry some white girl than be gay.

Than I dropped it. She never complained again.

That's one solution.

Another would be. Keep him a secret till you move out. Family is important. You build your own family, true. But some are with you since birth by blood. You need them. Once you move out you can stop hiding him.

Don't worry about the future like marriage and how you're going to tell your parents. Worry about it when the time comes.

Live in the now.

Well, you are now an adult and you can pretty much do what you want other than date a black man simply because your parents are prejudiced .At this moment since you are still under your parents roof they won't allow this.So the only thing you can do is move out.If you do this don't tell your parents until you have moved, have your car keys in hand,and hide your telephone.Call them and tell them that you have moved and that way they can't lock you in your room.You will never get your parents to understand because they don't want to. They might disown you but if you have your heart set on dating black men that is your business.Good luck to you.

If you love him, you won't let your parent's racism get between your relationship.

what race are you may i ask?

Also it's your choice on who you wish to date your parents can not change who you are attracted too that is your view but many try harder to get your parents to understand and be honest and you shouldn't sneak behind their back.

But i respect you for keeping to what you want and not what your parents want.

Your parents are being selfish. They're only thinking about themselves and their image. They're only concerned about the consequences of you dating someone outside of your race, and are probably only worried about what others will think about you, and your family.

It's pure selfishness, and I see it a lot.

The words race and ethnicity are subjectively derived, a contemporary cultural construct, an adjunct, or what is known in Hinduism as an Upadhi, which can also be used to divide the minds of formatory thinkers.

Colours do not exist, they are mental constructs.

Some tribes can't differentiate the difference between shades of blue and green, they even use the same word for the two colours.

Humans see 3 colours through the R.G & B spectrum.

The Mantis shrimp see's through a 12 colour spectrum.

In fact all the senses construct this materially pervasive paradigm.

Case in point: the Himba tribe of remote northern Namibia, to whom water looks “white” like milk and the sky looks “black” like coal, and who struggle to distinguish between blue and green, yet can easily pick out micro-shades which Americans cannot see.

http://www.abovetopsecret.com/forum/thread749732/p...

Identifying life and human beings in an objective, empirically derived and formatory way gives rise to misery (Doctrine), it also indicates the possibility of still being subjugated/subverted with words and deluded from the days of colonial rule.

Human beings have mindful volition and free will, consciousness and conscience.

Humanity is not a race, nor is it altruistic.

Humanity is the pure of heart in regards to the compassion we feel, and can be defined by our humility and selfless action, like feeling the need to care. It can also be defined by how we overcome adversity.

Sweetheart, have you ever heard the phrase "love is blind"? Well, I've got news for you. Love is color blind, as well. No one can help who they love. I hope your folks learn this very quickly. There should be peace in the family, but not at the expense of your happiness. You have my sympathy, and my best wishes.

Keep dating the black guy. It your choice, not your parents.