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rawr asked in Society & CultureCultures & GroupsLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender · 8 years ago

i need to know if i am gay now?

I have been talking with this female i met at a college party a few months ago on a regular basis (couple times a week) and we have hung out several times since then, just the 2 of us. coffee, lunch at chikfila nothing "intimate" just hey your a friend, lets hang out! well, recently we started to have feelings for each other. she is cute, about 5'4 25 years old. raven hair, size B breasts and probably not even 125 lbs soaking wet. she is very petite. well, ever since we started to become "more than just friends" she revealed to me she is transgender. she is female in every way (naturally) except for one detail. she has a dick instead of a vagina. I am now questioning whether or not this makes me gay or "into weird stuff" i thought she was attractive before i found out she had a penis and now that i know, i still find her cute but at the same time i am officially confused. I know i am straight but this entire experience is making me now question that. If i stay with her, does that mean i am gay now?

~officially confused

Update:

i am a guy, my apologies for not clarifying.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    See - I'm kind of the opposite. I'm physically female but mentally male - always have been since I was very young. Even though I'm in a relationship with a girl, I don't view myself as a lesbian. I feel like I'm in a hetero relationship with her - but - obviously - literally, I'm not. So no - I don't think it makes you gay - you might swing in the bisexual aspect of things - but to the rest of the world, you're straight - because she's a girl to the world. And you have to remember that her having a penis doesn't identify her as a male. If she identifies as female, then technically you're in a male-female relationship. As far as the sexual aspect of things goes - cross that bridge when you get there. There are plenty of things you can do.

    Source(s): Experience
  • Sabie
    8 years ago

    Ok u know ur gay if:

    U like butt sex

    U r attracted to dudes

    Or if u talk high pitched and stuff

    No ur probably not gay cuz ur not attracted to their dick ur at tracked to the persons females shaped rite? Plus in the future they could have a transplant done

  • ?
    8 years ago

    I'm a bisexual guy, and I think that from my point of view.........you might just be bisexual. Although I would not be interested in a transgender person for my own reasons. To each there own, and love is love. I don't have a problem with trans people either. I just think other mental things are going on.

  • Tjwills Horace
    8 years ago

    You may have a female crush. Many girls have this where they will think of another girl cute.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    "i need to know if i am gay now?"

    I would not label you gay for this. I don't think it fits for you in this particular example.

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