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How to stop fantasising about young women in the office?

Basically I'm a 37 year old man and I cannot help falling for young, attractive women. There's a girl in work who is 24 and I'm sure she is flirty with me and overtly friendly. I've convinced myself that it's not true and I'm keeping my distance but how can I be sure?

I desperately want to make a move on her but I'm scared of any repercussions. I'm sick of being like this, I feel childish and foolish.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    i wouldnt mix work with pleasure but if ur on the same level work wise like not her boss then ask her out for drinks if ur single too

    otherwise just fantasise about her lol

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Hi Kev. You don't want to do it at work, find out what she does and where she shops, then accidentally bump into her when she's out. then you can walk with her and chat, ask about her favourite clothes shop, where she gets the groceries, shoe shops, stuff like that. Then as the talking gets a little friendly, that's when you start moving the conversation to more personal things, start about work and how friendly she seems. move it to you and her when you think the time is right. You should be getting some idea about how she feels about you, so wait till you think the time is right and ask if she would like to spend time with you.

    I wish you happiness

    Source(s): myself
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