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My ex pregnant girlfriend is telling me she won't let me see my child when he/she is born. What can I do?!?
She is 18 and just over 3 months pregnant, and i'm 17. We've been together since the pregnancy (We were a long distance couple who broke up then met each other and she became pregnant). We've been fine together but now she apparently has a new boyfriend, a family friend who she's known for years. Her parents hate me so they might have something to do with it. She's threatening me saying she doesn't want contact with me, she won't let me see my child when he or she is born and she'll put her new boyfriends name on the birth certificate. What can I do?! I'll do anything! And the distance is Wales-England.
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- mariasonawireLv 68 years agoFavorite Answer
Visit your local family court (or UK equivalent) and ask for information, laws and instructions on how to schedule a hearing to establish paternity. If Mom denies you are the father, they can do a DNA test. If you are the father she cannot unilaterally decide you cannot be in the child's life. Her parents have no say. They would have to build a case saying you are an unfit crackhead criminal and that is very difficult to do and takes much investigation. It is unlikely the courts will fall for that.
Once paternity is established, you will have parental rights established followed by visitation schedule. It may be wise to have the courts order co-parent classes so Mom can learn she can't call the shots. In addition, she will have to accept that her boyfriend is NOT the father and has ZERO rights to the child. I would not worry so much about custody at this point. As long as your paternity nd parental rights are filed, Mom would have to go to court in order to make changes.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
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- elaeblueLv 78 years ago
You need to ask the court for a DNA test on the child once it is born.. if you are proven to be the parent then you will have rights to see the child even if she doesnt want you too.
- 8 years ago
If you can't work it out with her u will need to get a solicitor when the child is born, without your name on the birth certificate u have no legal rights
- 8 years ago
First off, how could she not let you see your own child, I've lived with a single mom, and I still do, and trust me it's not the best experience. Honestly, you have the right to see your child, even if she takes care of him\her. If she doesn't you could possibly sue her, but really, I mean not letting your child see his\her own dad, wow. I genuinely wish you the best if luck, please answer my question in my profile page. Thank you.
- 8 years ago
Just let her keep the kid. Sooner or later she'll need you, then you can use her own words against her and say "i though you didn't want me to see the kid" It's a win/win, you get to see your child and get the satisfaction of seeing her admit she was wrong
- Anonymous8 years ago
It could be the fact she's pregnant and her hormones are crazy. Sometimes people we come across let others feed them lies and they believe them if she's doing all of that tell your parents you want to take her to court
- 8 years ago
You need to speak with a attorney. in America you can get a court ordered paternity test. if its yours then you can try to gain custody.