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My ex pregnant girlfriend is telling me she won't let me see my child when he/she is born. What can I do?!?

She is 18 and just over 3 months pregnant, and i'm 17. We've been together since the pregnancy (We were a long distance couple who broke up then met each other and she became pregnant). We've been fine together but now she apparently has a new boyfriend, a family friend who she's known for years. Her parents hate me so they might have something to do with it. She's threatening me saying she doesn't want contact with me, she won't let me see my child when he or she is born and she'll put her new boyfriends name on the birth certificate. What can I do?! I'll do anything! And the distance is Wales-England.

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  • 8 years ago

    Honestly, from a females point of view I would let you see the child, but depends on why evrything has happened.. But honestly as of right now theres nothing you can do! You may should get a lawyer and request a DNA test. If this baby is your, under the circumstances you should be able to see the child.. Well sir, i wish you luck.. Comin from a 17 year old also, if you are sure youre the father do what you can and be the best you can!

  • 8 years ago

    get a solicitor... tell them whats happening, what they will do is wait for the child to be born, ask her to do a DNA test with you... if she says no. then the court will decide if she has too or not. in this case she will have to, once a DNA test has been done via the courts and it comes back its your child, your name will be put straight onto the birth certificate and you will then have parental rights...

    in the mean time, keep any emails/texts she sends you which later make her out to be a liar, such as her telling you you wont see YOUR baby and shes putting her new boyfriends name on the birth certificate, because thats illegal and you can later hold it against her and use it in court

  • make sure that baby is actually yours first of all. with the way shes acting now i wouldn't trust her to be the most faithful. if it is your baby then you have every right to see him/her that is your child. but i'm sure she'll try to squeeze every penny of child support out of you.

    me and my boyfriend are the same way(minus the long distance) i'm 18 hes 17 and now we're pregnant and i can't imagine doing this without him

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    you ought to ask the courtroom for a DNA try on the toddler as quickly because it relatively is born.. in case you're shown to be the determine then you certainly've got rights to work out the toddler whether she doesnt choose you too.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    first thing request a DNA testthrough your local courtsecond thing request paternal rightsmake sure he does everything legally do not trust her at all

  • 8 years ago

    file for custodial visits, but be prepared to pay child support.

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