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This girl at school gives me a hard time?
(This might be kinda long, but I would appreciate if you read the whole thing.) I need help. This girl gives me a hard time. I am in marching band, and this girl is in my section. She was nice to me at first, but now she's horrible to me. I used to really like this guy in band, and he used to like me too. But then all of a sudden he started liking this girl. It really hurt me, but I tried my best to ignore it. This girl is my section leader, (she's in charge of me and gets to tell me what to do.) She's a senior I'm a sophomore. During marching season, she used to always give me push ups and run laps, for honestly no reason. One time I got water without permission and she yelled at me! She embarrassed me in front of the whole section and told everyone that I had an attitude! It made me so upset that I cried when I got home that night. It sucks even more because she's so nice to everyone and she treats me like crap. Marching season eventually ended but now it's restarting again. So I had practice today and 4 months later this girl is still giving me a hard time! I only have to deal with her for a little longer but how do I make it through the end of the school year without talking back or beating her up because I'm going crazy!!!! Advice would be appreciated. Thank you.
Btw the guy doesn't like her anymore....they broke up a few months ago.
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- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
Don't give her the time of day. Enjoy what your doing because you like it. If she gives you extra laps run them. If she gives ou extra push-ups then do them! Don't let her win she is in charge and she won't make it easier on you especially if you tell (I'm not telling you not to talk to your parents though tell your parents everything)
She will get tired of it if she thinks you don't give a crap;)
Source(s): Personal exp! - Anonymous8 years ago
I would ask her privately first why she is doing the things she is to you (I'm so sorry you have to go through this also! But what doesn't kill us make us stronger!) And apologize if you had accidently offended her somehow, its better just to suck it up an say sorry than drag **** out sometimes lol. And if it continues tell someone of a higher authority like the band teacher or guidance concellor, they'll help you I'm pretty sure.
BUT DO NOT IN HELL create a scene. If she forces you to do some stupid **** one more time do it and head straight for help. NEVER lose your chill and star screaming because then YOU'LL be the one who looks like a *****, not her. And don't talk about her behind her back, this will only create a worse shitstorm than it already is.
My last piece of advice to you hon is to stay strong. Only two and a half more months and the ***** from hell will be gone forever!! :D keep your head held high and smile~ if ya need anything email me at thesupahfangirl@yahoo.ca~ cheers!
Source(s): Experience - Anonymous8 years ago
Beat her up! Jk dont do that .
Try asking her why shes being
Like that with you? & if she actually tells u why then try solving the problem.
Odds are shes probably jealuse of you . Because of the guy you use to like & he use to like u right ? Yeah but if u seem not to handel it anymore for the rest of the school year , tell a teacher or something & NO it wont make you a snitch just your tired of her BS.
Im sure shes taking advantage of the fact that shes a senior & your a sophmore.
Good luck tho. & dont worry karma comes back around. She'll she how it feels the way she treats you!