My wife wants to live outside in our backyard and wont come inside to see me anymore?

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For the past two weeks my wife hasnt been sleeping inside our house. Before she started sleeping outside she would sleep inside the bed with me but she would always complain with me that there was no space in the house for her. So she suggested that we bought a tent so I did. She made me build it and set it up for her in the backyard and she has basically been living there since. She only comes inside the house to get food and thats pretty much it. I go out there to visit her sometimes but shes usually too busy to talk to me. She even put a lock on her tent to keep me from going inside. She sleeps in the tent, she wakes up, she climbs up the tree in our backyard and will just hang out up there reading a book or listening to her mp3 player. She comes down to eat and other times she leaves for walks or shell be hiding in her tent. She hasnt washed her clothes or bathed for the two weeks shes been living outside and she even uses the bathroom in the backyard. It is becoming somewhat of a problem with my neighbors too. They have two kids, two boys, ones 8 and the other ones 6 and they go out in there backyard to play and the parents dont like when my wife uses the bathroom in front of them. They have came to my house and complained about it about 3 times so far and he even went as far as to go out and buy a fence that he is putting up (one that we wont be able to see through, a wooden fence).
I really dont know what to do about her now though. I cant go out there to talk to her cause she ignores me and I dont even know why. I work weekdays and I get home from work around 8:00pm and thats the time she usually has herself locked in the tent. So I really only ever have the weekends, when Im off work, to see her and try to talk to her. I mean she talks to me sometimes but not a lot and she wont even attempt to have a conversation with me. So whats going on here? What do you think I should I do next?

Brilliant &quot;Skippy&quot; Answer · Accepted Answer

Ok,

Is she still masturbating with all the groceries while your at work?

It seemed like that was your last question,

That and why are there stars in the sky. I'm beginning to wonder if she really exists!

Princess_Serah · Answer

Hey boy relax he is pissed off with you go near her showing her no harm make her feel comfortable and go near her keep your ego aside she is your wife after all kneel before her present her a flower a single flower and ask her to meet you out some where not into the house as she feels congested there..
Meet her in some coffee shop or in a garden.. When you meet her caress her hairs making her feel you are concerned for her..

but firstly try admitting your mistakes in your heart that your actions have badly hurted her..Present her a nice dress and forget about all that she didnt bathed since more than a week or her clothes are not washed just hug her and make her yours..its only your love and care that can bring her back to you..
take care of her and yours too..
all the best!!

? · Answer

I think 2 weeks is a long period, she enjoying her loneliness but not bathing or washing her clothes for 2 weeks that can be a bit of a problem.
Maybe if u get her best friend or one of her parents/relatives try to talk to her, it will help her

? · Answer

she is insane, there are people you can call about this to get her help even against her wishes as how she is behaving is detrimental to herself and those around her. not a nice thing to have to go through but much needed in this case.

if there is a problem she has with you and this is her way of teaching you a lesson, it is a very unhealthy way of going about it.  get her help before you can be accused of neglecting her well being and in some areas, that is a legally chargeable offense.

Anonymous · Answer

Wow! Okay well you need to take her lil home way from her and be like we need to talk and tell what the hell iSs good with you? You not acting like a woman you and liike a bumm ? Why and take her out to eat or something buy things she not not live outside anything can happen to the woman

? · Answer

it's pretty clear she wants nothing 2 do with you.. is she treating her family, mom , dad , brothers, sisters the same way ?  if you know she is close 2 someone, have them take her 2 the doctor because something has gone wrong and it sounds like she can't help herself.. when you mentioned she quit bathing and goes 2 the bathroom on front of the neighbors kids is a true sign her mind is messed up.. bummer eh

Universeone · Answer

It seems that she is insane. Bring her to mental treatment doctor to check her.
If the result is mental sickness, then the doc will advice you how to help or treat her.
If she is sober, the file for divorce bc she refuse do as a duty of wife.

? · Answer

She sounds like she's snapped. Maybe try getting a professional to talk to her. Or file for devorice.

TBone · Answer

If your wife is anything like my ex-wife then I recommend that you don't change a thing.

? · Answer

call a good councillor, let her some cessions with the person. she might have effected by her brain.

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My wife wants to live outside in our backyard and wont come inside to see me anymore?

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