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How can I get out of the friend zone?

Hey! I'm currently single and although not the best looking person in the world I do OK. I'm fine chatting to girls in bars and can normally make them laugh and get their numbers etc.

However I have worked with a few girls who have been perfect for me but I only seem able to be their friends. I think I'm that scared of creeping them out if I made a move that I could come across as too jokey but I really don't know.

Can you recommend any adjustments to my behaviour to stop becoming friends? It's really annoying me now!

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    well you see friend zone is like the mafia you never get out. But if you really want to all you have to do is shower in gliter and go out in the sun and that will do it or you can grow a pair and ask her or him yourself

    Source(s): did it before
  • David
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    I'd suggest that you don't be such a try hard and let the ladies give you the tip first. How do you manage this? Learn to read body language, it isn't hard really. The girl doesn't even have to be interacting with you directly, but you can be sure that the ladies are just as predatory and looking for a (heh!) good time just as much as the boys are. If you go in a place you can be sure you have been checked out by all the ladies in a very short time, assessed and by about 90% of them, dismissed. There will be the 10% who you should hit on though, it's just a matter of spotting them.

    So learn a bit of psychology, learn a bit of body language - this isn't hard you know - and identify them.

    You can then go into your chat up routine, don't bother with the cr*p, make your intentions clear from the outset and start scoring with the ladies.

    Word of advice? You won't meet your life partner in a bar or a club. If you think you may have you are probably wrong. She'll be at work, next door, who knows where? Some place, but she is out there. Don't be worrying to much about finding her, she'll just appear and it will be lovely.

    Good luck, God bless.

  • 8 years ago

    What you should do is not to worry so much. You should try and notice significant things that point out if they like you or not. Find some things they like to do and ask them if they want to do those things for a date. You should try to be more confident women live confident men. I know what it's like to be in the friend zone this stuff got me out of it quick. Don't use pickup line they are usually corny and strange and girls might think you are getting the stuff from the Internet. Remember these things and you'll be fine. Hope this helped

  • 8 years ago

    Act like you want to be a boyfriend not a friend. First impressions are EVERYTHING.

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  • 8 years ago

    Get really nice skin, haircut and abs :D girls love it

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