If your husband said he was excited about?

Well... before You bring home another man, I would surely have a GOOD TALK with Your husband.

Will he REALLY BE OK watching you getting worked over by another guy? How do YOU feel about it? If it is something you BOTH will be OK with, then give it a try.

May I suggest before go shopping for another guy, that you might want to do a little test first.

Go out to a night club. Let your husband go in first and find a table. Then you come in later, dressed

all sexy as if you were single and go in and flirt and dance with all the guys while your husband is watching you. After a while connect back with your husband and go home with him. Back at home, ask him if he was OK with all that went on in the club? If he is still excited about sharing you, and you enjoyed yourself with being with other guys, then GO FOR IT. Yes it is appropriate that YOU get to choose your partner. Have fun :)

To be cuckolded is to unknowingly raise the child of another man and your wife.

As for whether you should bring home a lover in an attempt to fulfill some fantasy of his, you simply must ask him. It'd be awfully uncomfortable if you did that and found out it wasn't what he had in mind, regardless of what is "done."

Sounds like its a fantasy he wants to try in reality at least once.

Hand-pick the stud of your fantasies and enjoy.

If hubby melts down, well it was his idea anyway.

We have been in this lifestyle for almost 3 years, been married almost 4. My husband is much older than I am.

Its not such a bad arrangement. I have an older wiser husband who worships me as a goddess. And I enjoy occasional trysts with the most amazing studs. I have developed a personal preference for tall athletic Black studs. Being a petite blonde woman, the contrast in and of itself is tremblingly erotic.

Your husband is telling you you can chose lovers based on sex-appeal, the finest you desire, and enjoy it, with hubby's blessing. Maybe he doesn't realize quite the power he is giving you...but if it doesn';t work out, you did no wrong, as it was his idea.

a cuckolded man serves his lady in any way she says,he is submissive to her and its his job to clean her after sex with another man etc,its totally up to the lady who she has sex with and its his job to view and serve them in any way they say,she can bring home anyone he wants

Do it in front of him. Make him cry.

do it. he's begging for it.