Friends death anniversary???HELP!!?

Good for you, that is a very painful and long road you have been on, Good for your, really.

My first thought would be to love and honor yourself , and then I thought plant a tree, watch it grow , with a plaque on it for her or something. Perhaps a good place to sit under and study or something.I see that some people make videos (youtube search RIP) , and others write books of their memories. Others write about the experience, Robin Romm (sp?) wrote 'Mercy Papers' a very real experience of her moms death by cancer.

There are also OTHERS that have gone through this with friends, parents etc, at

kidskonnected.org, cancercare.org, and grouploop.org if you feel like you want to go there, you may not want to anymore.

So, If you come up with more than that, some unique helpful way, then please write about it, and share it with others.

If you need some additional help resolving the emotions , eftmasters.com

You could draw flowers or write a song but any thing you choose to do just know that she will like it just be creative work with something she loved in sure whatever you do will be great.

Why don't you find someone with cancer and be their friend and help them with what ever they need.

sorry to hear