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How to end fwb with my best friend?

I was in close friendship with a girl for last 10 month 

I was liking her as my 'sister' 

We often spend night together, studying

 One day, she asking to become friend with benefit I decline it 

However after few days, i cannot resist and become hers fwb 

I make out with her once, for about 2 hours 

After i finish (without having sex), i realise that this is just not right 

I realise that i like her as my sister, it feels like I make out with my sister

 How to stop it with minimum problem to our relationship?

Thank you :)

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  • 8 years ago
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    i am glad you have a conscience . i would just tell her (in person) that you respect her too much to go through with this, and you don't have romantic feelings for her but you truly care about her. you don't want to sleep with her because you feel you are taking advantage of her.

  • 8 years ago

    I'd suggest that you put your own, assertive foot forward, and tell her this.

    Hopefully, it won't affect your relationship, but that's simply up to chance.

    If you like her like a sister, then be kind, but don't seem a pushover; make sure your point is clear that you don't want to do this with her, and hopefully, she'll accept it, and you two can move on.

  • 8 years ago

    just tell her it feels wrong. She probably has a crush on you and that's the only way she can get what she wants. Tell her it feels like you're kissing your sister, but you want to keep your friendship.

  • 8 years ago

    There is no problem. Most my relationships were from very good friends to lovers. So don't feel bad. Feel good that there is someone else in your life that can really help you!

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  • 8 years ago

    Just tell her how you feel she should understand. Make sure you tell her from your heart.

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