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My girlfriend said that she still has feelings for her EX boyfriend who now lives in another country? Please..?

My Girlfriend tells me about the stories of her and her EX,She said she considers him as a friend so she sees know harm in telling me them, as she dumped him,I asked her does she still love him,And she said she does,She still has feelings her him,But she said she wants me and them feelings will fade since she "loves me",I was thinking about leaving her because of this as I don't like to hear his name ever,And when I said that she begged me to stay with her and cried and said she loves me so much and she will do anything to prove it,

Should I believe her? I love her to bits but I don't want to end up hurt,Please give me your advice!

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  • 8 years ago
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    Hmm...I think that she brought up her ex because she was feeling lovey-dovey at that time, so she would daydream about the first person who comes into mind. I'm not saying that she loves that person (trust me, I do that a lot, haha), she just wants to relieve her feelings, so she talks to you about it.

    You can tell her that it makes you jealous whenever she says his name, I'm sure it won't bug her...much.

    I don't think there is much chance of a breakup, so to keep that thought 100%, you should give her a bit more attention, compete with her on games or something.

    This is great because the best and sexiest guy she is going to get is you.

  • 5 years ago

    If you keep breaking up then you shouldn't get back together, because it will likely end again.

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    Whether or not you should really depends on the reasons that you two keep breaking up. But I really doubt he has changed in such a short period of time. You're the girl, and while usually I recommend girls do the asking out instead of just waiting, in the case I think even if you do wind up getting back together with him, you shouldn't put forth any effort in making it happen. Act coy. Maybe go out with someone else for a bit, not steady, but go on a few dates with or something. Just don't make yourself TOO available to him.

    If you make it obvious you want him back then he is going to think he can treat you however he wants and you will always be there for him, and that will just lead to more break ups in the future. Basically, I think he will break up with you whenever he wants another girl, and when that doesn't work out, in the interest of not feeling lonely, he will come back to you until he meets someone else. Again, and again. Thats assuming the past break ups were in any way his doing. If it was always your decision, then I have to wonder what he did to make you break up with him, or was it possibly you who left him for someone else?

  • 5 years ago

    Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/TayIk

    Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

    The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

    Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

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