My girlfriend said that she still has feelings for her EX boyfriend who now lives in another country? Please..?

Okay, I will share this with you. My boyfriend at that time was about 7 months divorced from his first marriage. And he and I were getting very serious. Until about 3 months into our relationship we were talking about our past Xs' and he said about his: "we still love each other". OMG the sh*t hit the fan in my head. But i didn't say anything, i played it cool. But i decided to let fate take control. If it was meant to be, it was meant to be. Well everyday, i saw more and more how committed he was to me, and my daughter and how much he loved me. I mean you could tell from a mile away he was devoted to me.

One day i asked him about that phrase that hurt me so much, and he said it was more a phrase out of fear. "I feared the heck out of her, i feared she would interject her two cents into our relationshipand destroy you and me".

Well we got married 7 months later, and we've been married for 3 years. And everyday he proves to me that he's a gem, more than i could have EVER asked for in a husband and in a dad. In terms of his X... even though we all live in the same city, he cannot stand her, talk to her. They had two kids together, and just for their sake he talks to her in a very limited way, but he flat out told her he refuses to parent with her"

Err with caution. Don't dump her just yet. Give your relationship some time to grow before you make a rash decision. If it doesn't grow then you know what to do.

You cannot be in a relationship where one partner openly confesses she is in love with someone else. The fact she cries and tells you she loves you is because she is lonely and think by being with you, someone who loves her, she can forget the other one and starts loving you. Can you see the picture? There is something very wrong here. You do not need drama in your life. Get yourself a woman who does not hurt you by saying she loves another man, give me a break!

Tell her how it makes you angry sad etc. Let her know that for there to be a future for yous dhe needs to completly let go of the past and focus on what will make yous a stronger couple.....if you already love her either way you will be hurt ask her not to speak of him to u or then you will have to call it quits...i think she will do this if she loves you

I'm not sure if she really loves you, or if she needs you to help her get over him. You need to tell her that you don't want to hear anything else about him. If she keeps bringing him up, after you've asked her not you, you probably need to leave.

Well

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Regards

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she loves you

but her talking about him is not cool

it is time for her to move on

so he is off limits to her from now on

it is either him or you...no more there are only TWO people in a couple

betting she will pick YOU

good luck!

She dumped him, she wants you, he's in another country. -- Nothing to worry about.

Who needs that crap?