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Your thoughts on if women have bad taste in men they choose to date?
Do Women have as much bad taste in what guys to date? I have seen so many women dating such lame guys! I have also seen too many guys that are really awesome, just get the cold shoulder from women all the time.
What are your thoughts?
4 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
Yes, you are partially correct about your notion on the majority of woman dating men that aren't at their caliber. I can tell you why this is so.
Okay, commonly what woman want from man is love, and appreciation the kind woman/girl are longing for is to be treated with respect and recognition... Poise. Typically when a guy feels that the woman is greater than them, they feel they have to work harder to maintain the relationship, as a result, they give more compliments, appreciate; They treat them like a princess/queen. Basically they do more than what a self-assured 'Awesome guy' would do. Because the fear of losing that great catch. Another factor is the "Awesome" guys have a tendency to be more arrogant, meaning they are more selfish, and arrogant. They like to-talk loads about themselves boost, very proud ful remarks. Most of them are dissolving the fact that a conversation should be equally distributed and balanced. Girls do feel frustrated and have desperate attempts to be heard about their opinions, but most woman don't want to bother penetrating through this tough temperament those more "Awesome' guys have. Because they hope out of his own free will he will make her feel important and special. Think of it this way. Do you hear alot of things and see alot of topics based around how great this guys prestige is?
of course these types of guys have great qualities, but mostly are high in expectations. collectively they can get woman but I presume this isnt their focus there to busy maintaining their reputations around their friends. Bros before hoes.The type of high expectations us "Woman' Have a difficult time attaining. Woman fear they will lose this type of guy. as in oppose to the "Lame" Guy they can more keep him since how in the world are they going to find someone better than what they have. The "Lame" guy is less-maintenance and more giving in their actions, and conduct. perhaps is your awesome friend whats a girl he should act more out of humility, and treat a woman they way they want to be treated. Even if he feels he will ruin his Superego or go against his integrity. I'm certain he shouldn't have a problem getting a woman if he stays true to himself, and treats the woman like a woman with respect, and limit his own praise. Its all about balance.
- Anonymous8 years ago
It's not just women, and it's not just men. It's humans in general - ultimately, we want to be loved, accepted, cherished. And we deserve that. Unfortunately, we fall for what's bad for us, because it's either disguised as what we want (people who are players), or we think it's not what we want (nice guys getting the cold shoulder from women). We don't know what's good for us, we want what we want immediately (not everyone is willing to wait around till the right guy/woman comes along), and so we screw up our lives, and we end up wondering why, no matter how hard we try, we just keep hurting.
Sigh. Again, it's a human disease, to chase what's worst for us until we've either been bitten so many times we finally come to our senses, or we just give up and accept that this is how life is gonna be.
Please don't do this to yourself. You're an awesome person, and you deserve to be treated as such. :)
Source(s): my brain... - Anonymous4 years ago
i'm a Scorpio woman in love with a Capricorn guy. been at the same time for over 3 months..... sure you have compatibility...... they're guarded with their thoughts. yet quicker or later that outdoors will crack and not something yet honey will ooze out. you're a Scorpio use that passionate allure u will see.
- trader1867Lv 78 years ago
i think you dont choose who you fall for it happens all the time so its best to not limit yourself and always keep an open mind