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So my boyfriend wants to be in an open relationship cuz I don't have a job and he wants to have sex, oh and btw I'm a virgin, so I agreed to it and now he's mad and saying he'll break up with me cuz I'm not cool with another guy doing him when I want to do him and for him to be my first time. I think he's a jerk for not respecting how I feel, I love him but he proved to me tonight that he doesn't really love me by allowing himself to go through with such a stupid decision! I need help, please I don't know what to do :( I'm about to cry right now cuz we just had a heated argument about this.
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- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
Sex means different things to different people, to me its that much of a big thing and open relationships have worked for me in the past because to me our "love" and our "sex" and not the same, sex is just a fun thing to do with people you find sexually attractive. I used to go out clubbing and pull knowing he was at home and we were both fine with it so maybe he just thinks of sex a little like this while you value it a lot more.
Explain to him what sex means to you, even more if he is going to be your first, and then he is still don't understand I'm sorry to say it sounds like its just not meant to be and if sex does mean a lot to you then don't lose your V plates to some douche thats not worth it!
Sorry to hear shits not working at the moment but I hope he understands and things get better!!
