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'how long would you wait for your bf too get out of jail ? we been together for 3 years im in love?

He's maybe looking at a year or two if he doesn't get probation , his friend broke into a house & he was with him its stupid I know the police said to me that they know he was there he didn't take anything but he was there and he could have stoppped it. His bail at first was 50000 but it dropped down to 25000. Because he cooperated his bail is now 2500 well that's the 10 % that his family & I would have to come up with but I prayed praying does really work a bail bondsman called me & said someone would have to pay 780 & then have a payment plan from there I'm happy my boyfriend used his phonecalls to call me not his family I'm 19 he ' s 22 he proposed over the phone what should I do?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I agree with the other person - your much to special to be proposed to over the phone. While your boyfriend's in jail. Your 19, if it's really so great then he can wait till he's free and you to can be together again. I think the situations awfully dumb. if he did nothing he doesn't need to be in jail for that long. But as a law student - i know its all due process. Don't get your hopes up and try to gather all this money for him when it might not work out in the end. I can tell you now, if he proposed to you in jail at the age that you guys are at. There is NO WAY in hell that marriage is going to last. Statistically speaking. I believe in true love, and you sound like you could have it. But, take it slow until you can see him again face to face and express your feeling. when hes out of jail (God forbid he goes)

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Forget about bail.

    Its a temporary freedom at the cost of others.

    There is a difference between bail and bond.

    Bail lets him out until his trial.

    If he shows up, you get it back.

    If you pay a 10% bond, that money is never

    returned.

    And if he doesnt show up for trial, you will

    owe the other 90%.

    Let him sit in jail until his trial, so he knows

    what jail feels like.

    If he loved you, he would have been with you

    instead of being a criminal with his criminal

    friend(s).

    He proposed over the phone from jail??!

    Thats just him being desperate.

    Its an old trick.

    As soon as he gets out of this mess, he will

    get himself into a new mess.

    If he knew the difference between right and

    wrong, he wouldnt be in jail in the first place.

    Should you wait? Thats up to you.

    You need to look at the whole picture, not just

    the "story" that HE gives to you.

    Go to his trial and listen to the REAL story

    thats presented. Then youll find out how

    honest he has been with you.

    Right now, you are being blinded by your

    emotions.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    A year or two is nothing to wait for your true love. The whole situation sounds rubbish but it happens..

    As for the proposal I think that should be let lye for a while, especially if he goes to jail as you could end up changing your minds about each other however you seem sweet, just go with it and it'll all work out, for the mean time just concentrate on work or college or whatever it is you do and then before you know it you'll be back together!

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    i did no longer ought to study any of this. by no skill positioned your existence on carry for yet another guy or woman. Ever. via her asking you to await her, all she is asserting is she needs a secure practices internet to fall back on in case the different 10,000 men she dates do no longer artwork out. (it is likewise actual for women human beings, by no skill await a guy. you're purely fooling yourselves.) in basic terms exception to that is in case you have a surprising relationship, your significant different is interior the militia, and that they must establish. via all skill, enable your heart improve fonder as you wait. to reply to your question, do no longer wait. EVER. bypass out and meet new human beings, date around, and revel on your existence. you in basic terms stay as quickly as.

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