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I really like this girl, but im too afraid to text her? 10 points for help?
I'm 17 about to be 18 she's 20. Recently I've caught some hints of her liking me, maybe. But I want to get to know her. We have little conversations on instagram quit a few times, but I just want to seal the deal and text her. I'm scared she won't reply, or would think too quickly that I'm taking interest in her and she wouldn't like me, things like that stop me. Help!!
3 Answers
- ?Lv 58 years agoFavorite Answer
Stop worrying how people thinks about you. Just text her. Worry about the results when it comes out. Not before. You have 50/50 chance if you text her. You have 0 chance if you don't. The best thing being a man? Just type what you want to say on your phone, close your eyes and click sent. Will be exciting.
You already know there will be 2 things happening once you text her but actually there are 3. It's
1) she says yes
2) she says no
3) she says I don't know
Good that she says yes. Bad that she says no. Good that she says I don't know cause it's up to you to decide for her. Either way, just say something nice like try making friends first. Don't say be my girlfriend. You will scared her plus both of you don't know each other much. So just start as friends and invite her to watch some movies or spend time together tomorrow for lunch or dinner. Tell her you are fond of her and would like to get to know her better. That will start the pace.
Don't worry about what's going to happened or what you need to do next. It comes naturally once you are friends with her and start spending time. Keep in mind, you and her are close friends. Not lovers year but close friends. Then do what close friends do. It should be easy.
Don't stress or give yourself unnecessary pressure. No point. Just keep cool and calm. You are just getting a new friend. That's all. Have patience and don't rush.
Good luck but sent the text man. Don't be scared. The easiest one big step of your life. :)
Confirm can work.
- Anonymous8 years ago
What and where would you be!
W/O electronic communications?
Women want men to talk to them face to face!
Women take chances asking men out!
Men take chances asking women out!
It's as old as the hills!!!!!!!!!
You have to take your chances with women otherwise!
You will look back and think: if I did this she my have done this! Or if I did that she may have done that!
There is a thing called "Reducing the law of averages!"
It means!
Every no you get!
Brings you that much closer to a yes!
- Anonymous8 years ago
You should just do it! Worst come worst she won't reply which means she's clearly not worth it!