If a guy doesn't hold the door for you?

Chivalry is dead. It was a social contract between males and females, and since your side is no longer abiding by the terms, neither should his. Welcome to the 21st century. Now act like a sane human being and stop feeling entitled to everything. Holding the door open for someone is generosity, NOT duty.

Guy or girl, it's always good to open doors for people because it is a courtesy, but most people are too busy consumed in their own lives to think about door-opening all the time for everyone.

And, just because he stared at you and talked to his friend doesn't mean he likes you. Sometimes chicks think that when guys look or talk about them, it must be because of an attraction, but he might just be going on about how he doesn't like you, or 'what the **** is she wearing', etc.

What more can you conclude apart from the fact that it was rude or, maybe he was holding door for the other person because he knows the other person/is friends with, and since he doesn't know you he feels he doesn't need to open the door for you. It's rude but don't think on it that much.

Okay, he likes you, because he looks at you and talks to his friends about you. But then he wont even hold the door open for you. This could be because he is shy and is scared and doesn't want to talk to you because he fears he will mess up and embarras himself. I think maybe he likes you, but if he wont even hold the door open for you what kind of guy is that. He's not gentleman like because he doesn't hold the door open. As for him looking at you after the door hit your face, he might have realized what he had done, but again like I said maybe he was too shy to talk to you and apologize. Sometimes people get butterflies when they are near people they like, so they don't talk or approach you, but all they can do is look at you. Lastly, maybe he just stopped liking you... Good luck with him!

I think he's not a doorman so there's no reason to hold the door open for you.

And you are reading way to far into this.

So what he didn't hold the door open for you? Doesn't mean hes an evil person all of a sudden or that he doesn't like you at all.

HAHAHA! sorry no offence if you were my best friend i'd fall to the ground and laugh my head off! anyway, i think that maybe he's just trying to grab your attention? the country where i come from, boys in school, if they like a girl they tend to annoy her pull her hair and trip her up i don't know why though, they just like to make the girl mad! :D :D

he doesn't sound nice, if you like him back you could make an effort to find out what sort of person he is? but if not... avoid him.

I think he's just playing with u. For some guys they don't know what to say or do so we just do things like that to get on your nerves. I mean you did notice him and he must be on your mind to post this question. Right? and don't worry about his friend there just talking about you ,that's a good thing.

Well if he does that, then just say 'thanks alot....' sarcastically or 'that was kind of rude'.

Apart from that, what's the big fuss. You're way over thinking this.

He doesn't sound like a gentlemen. I would just ignore him.