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I'm 22 and never been kissed?

I guess you can call me one of those "late bloomers." I am 22 years old, never had a boyfriend, never been out on a date and never been kissed. Most of these things people do when they are 13 or 14 years old but I just havent experianced those things yet. Should I be embarassed? I am totally clueless when it comes to the opposite sex and I'm just not sure how a guy's mind works at all. Should I feel embarassed that I am sort of "new" or "late to the party"? Would a guy find it strange because I havent experianced these things and that I dont know how dating works at my age? Please help! :( Thanks! :)

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  • 8 years ago
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    Hey, don't worry about it! I'm 21 and had my first kiss, date, and relationship at 18. Guys won't find it weird, they would actually give you props. It means you aren't easy. Don't be embarrassed, the right guy will come along, trust me. Just stay true to yourself (:

    Source(s): my own experiences
  • 8 years ago

    No, not every guy would mind. In my opinion it shows that you:

    1. Have morals

    2. Have high standards

    3. Don't follow the crowd

    4. Are Intelligent

    5. Are Confident

    6. Are looking for quality relationships rather than just sex

    7. Are a woman worth marrying

    I don't get why people are told that they HAVE to date as if it's a game. Relationships should be about finding the right person as well as finding someone who has similar interests, goals, morals, standards, ideas and things in common with you. Also it should be someone that you can enjoy hanging with and having a conversation with. Making a choice like that isn't easy and isn't something that people should do out of the blue. If a person isn't careful, he or she will fall for the first pretty or handsome face that they see or the first person who steps forward with a smooth line or polite actions. I think you're the perfect age for the beginning of a relationship. 13 and 14 is way too young, in my opinion, because a lot of teenagers are looking for instant gratification, what feels good, what's fun, having a good time, etc. At that age, it's really hard to make a good decision and to resist a temptation as powerful as sex.

    And what's wrong with learning how to kiss or experience dates when you're mature enough to make rational decisions? Don't let society or people that are followers influence you into feeling like you "missed out." A lot of those people who began dating very early are knee deep in problems such as babies, STD's, broken hearts, etc.

    You, on the other hand, are better prepared to deal with strong feelings and so can make a rational decision without falling into bed with the first guy that kisses your hand.

    I don't find it strange that you haven't dated at your age at all. In fact, I have a lot of admiration and respect for your stamina, strength and ability to continue despite not doing what "most people" are supposedly doing. I also think that you have a great deal of courage to admit this.

    Whichever guy captures your attention will be very lucky. Good luck! Don't give up. One day, a man who fits all of your qualifications will show up and while those who began early are exiting their third marriage, you will be in a better position with a strong enough mentality to choose the man of your dreams.

    Not all men are looking for just sex and also some men are "late bloomers" as well. Don't let the media convince you that all guys are sleeping around or that they had their first kiss at 13. Trust me, there are many guys out there who also waited and who will help you to realize that you made the right decision by waiting :)

  • 8 years ago

    Youre not a lone!! Some guys will find it refreshing. You just have to find the right ones. My brother is a great looking guy. Has girls and a few guys hitting on him all the time. He is very religious and wont have sex till marriage. He is 27 and lso never kissed a girl.

    So there are some of you all ouut there still.

    Me..I got married at 18..

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    It is a big pain in the @ss to date a " Trainee " I mean it's like who ever dates you is going to have to go through all that goofy shyt he went through in junior high school .

    I'd suggest at least having an intimate talk with one of your girlfriends that has had a normal social life .

    Maybe she can fill in a few of the blanks for you ?

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  • 8 years ago

    You posted the same question again

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