Tired of my "broke" friend?

Tell her. Sit her down and say that you don't mind occasionally helping her out but you can't afford to keep bailing her out if she never re-pays you. Try and work out a pay back scheme - either a certain amount each week or she has to buy the meals out for the next 3 months or whatever until the debt is paid off

Or simply start not paying for her. Just pay for your share and just say "hey sorry, but I can't afford to buy yours as well..." and then she'll have to come up with the money (especially at a restuarant where she can't leave). Be tough though

Your friend is always getting you to pay for things because you let her. Tell her before you meet up with her next that you are no longer able to pay for her and you won't be. Then, if you don't want to pay for her anymore you do these things in these circumstances:

"... way of asking for money or she'll ask to use my debit card" you say sorry, I have recently found out that letting you use my card is committing fraud and I can't take that risk.

"... she'll suggest that we meet at a restaurant and halfway through dinner or sometimes before she'll say "btw i'm broke" or say she left her wallet at home". Before ordering your meal, you state clearly to the waiting staff that you would like two bills, yours and hers. If she then states that she doesn't have her wallet, tell her she's going hungry. If she doesn't say anything, because you've asked for a separate bill, they will be looking for her to pay and not you.

"... The last time we were picking up donuts she pulled the "I left my wallet at home" on me and then went on to pick extra donuts and a ribena for her sister and I HAD TO PAY." Sorry you don't HAVE to pay. You tell her that you are only buying these ones and if she doesn't have the money, she has to put those back because you're not buying.

Once you start standing up for yourself and she realises that you will no longer be paying, she'll have her wallet with money.

KD

Tell her (and this is a fact) that she must learn to live within her means and you are not helping her by bailing her out (loaning her money) so as a friends you can't loan her the money because its only going to keep her from doing what she needs to is to earn to do without or go make some money, or change her spending habits.

If you lose her as a friend at first don't worry if shes a true friend she'll steam and return, if she's not a true friend and just a user your better off one true friend is worth 1,000 fake ones.

Also make a list of all you can remember where what for that she borrowed money.

manipulators from gold diggers too serial killers are great actors...remember neighbors of serial killers whos bodies were found under the house saying "He was such a great guy, he always helped me out when I asked, there must be some mistake." Well they come in all types and sizes.

It sounds like this friend is taking advantage of you. You should try only going to places with her that don't require money all the time. Another thing you could do is when she says that she left her wallet or her purse at home or that she doesn't have any money tell her that you forgot yours too or only bring enough for your stuff. If she still continues to do this it would probably be best to just not hang out with her for a bit. Does she only do this to you or to other friends?

are u stupid? never give her money again she is using you, i think you should make her pay it back some way maybe even tell the police even if you lose her as a friend you dont even need a failure like her i bet she is just your friend because you are successful and you have money. tell her if she wants money loan it from a bank not from you. and try getting your money back

hmm, maybe ask what is going on with her as this isn't really normal ask her quietly what's going on why is she always 'broke'

if she gets angry i say its actually best to cut off all ties, she's being sneaky picking expensive things and getting more things when you pay, i think your being too nice to her